Get a Prenuptial Folks Before Getting Married

[AbdiWahab252]

My good friend got kicked out of his house by his wife of 4 years this past Friday. She changed the locks while he was away at work and left his stuff in the driveway with a note asking him for a divorce. He tried knocking on the door and she called the Police who told my buddy to stay away or face arrest.

So the poor man has been staying in my basement until he can find a place for himself. She intends on collecting alimony, child support and keeping the beautiful house that he bought.

So folks, make sure to sign a prenuptial agreement. It don't matter if the person you are marrying is Somali cause that never helped my buddy.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prenuptial

[*Faithful]

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[AbdiWahab252]

Faithful:

How many $$$ u took from innocent faraxs ?

[zulaika]

i wonder what this moffo did to get his woman that mad.. hmmmm


back in the day in Somalia, i hear the men(when they divorce a woman and marry a new one) used to throw the first women out of the house and retain everything including her kids.

we just returning the favor in the wild wild west dee.. nuffin' personal.

if u ask me, it is the women who needed to sign this so called pre-nup.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zuliaka:

Women should do it too. I know some sisters who make a lot more than their husbands.

This guy hasn't committed any cardinal sins like cheating on his wife. She is simply upset that he wasn't willing to entertain her very unreasonable, expensive habits.

[*Faithful]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Faithful:

How many $$$ u took from innocent faraxs ?[/quote]

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[kambuli]

A/W

How come? Doesn't the women work? What expensive habits are you talking about? Can you be a little bit more elaborate before I judge this women....

I say this because sometimes men are so thrifty and so Bakhyl that you can't imagine and sometimes women are so extravagant that you do not want to deal with them...Maybe you heard one side of the story only.....

But again, even if he is bakhyl why lock the door and call the police? There are always better ways to seek divorce.. But tell us more, I think something is not right here...

[Niya]

Abdiwahab you need dhaqan celis......what is this pre-nup nonsense.
. Besides, if they go through a divorce and he is the sole owner of the house; he will have the option of selling the house and sharing the proceedings 50/50.

Opps, gotta to edit it. I thought the couple had 4 kids!! married 4 years okay.
Still no need for prenup, divorce court will resolve the issue.

[Gacalisa]

Ala maskiin sanaa. war naaka diinta mata'qaano miyaa.

[Qumanyoo]

bet its his house as well! miskiin!

prenupt ma ass! altho i wouldnt mind takin his shit..

[HELWAA]

Taasi waa dhaqanka soomaalida ino ninko guriga ka baxo marka la isfahmi waayo........waa just macsallam, afartaada shalfisna hore ka siiqaado ya 7imaar

[AbdiWahab252]

Well some background on the marriage:

Friend went to Somalia & his folks insisted he get married b4 leaving. He was a longtime bachelor but his folks either told him to get married or lose their blessings.

So he got married to this lovely woman who is 10 years younger than him. He brought her stateside. He tried to get her a job but she refused and insisted on being a traditional Somali housewife.

She is one of those people with really hot tempers & doesn't apologize if she is wrong. My buddy is one of those quiet type who let things go until they reach a breaking point when he responds very aggresively (nonviolent but he uses very powerful language).

Latest dispute issues involved her getting a brand new set of furniture even though they bought their furniture nearly 4years ago. She said it was old & her friends had better ones. This was in addition to her demanding that she get a new set of gold jewelery.

My buddy is financially well off but is fed up with her constant demands for petty stuff & lack of work ethic.


Niya,

Dhaqan celiis ? I could use that and will get some when I head to Galkacyo in March.

Kambuli,

My buddy is not a cheapo. He works hard and provides well for his family. He bought the wife a brand new car when she came Stateside to help her get a job but instead she spends her time on the telephones gossiping with her friends.

[Lord Diplock]

I gather in America, the balance is tilted in favour of women in this kind of situation but in this country, your friend would have had this house for himself (considering the children plight) because the woman has no equity in the house (she did not contribute to its purchase nor invested significant monies in improving the house [see the speech of Lord Diplock in Gissing v Gissing 1972]

The way forward is pre-nuptial agreement, but what about those like us with nothing to worry about (no house or savings) ?

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Abdi Hutu,



Lol@prenup...


Welfare checks are not an asset.



Did you see this?

"The 30 fighters were nabbed on Wednesday after arriving from Jilbi area in Somalia on donkeys. Among those being held at the Hulugo hospital is Siad Adan, 19 who officials said was a close confidant of UIC leader Maalim Adan Harow"


Mooryaan on Donkeys!

[AbdiWahab252]

LordDiplock, being a student of law, you should know better.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment and your assets should increase with the years so you might lose a nest egg.