Two Wives

[Seoma [Crawler2]]

There is a lot of girls waitng for marriage..and many have missed the train, as they say

There are two options:
1-just stay with one, and leave many girls witout marriage
2-marry two wives to give so many a chance of getting married and having children, a dream of so many women!

ladies: just put yourself in her shoes,would u prefer to be a co-wife and have children? or without marriage for the rest of your life?

honest answers are appreciated.

[Qumanyoo]

r u mad? share ma man wit sum next chick?? bac bac! neva dat!

[Seoma [Crawler2]]

me no mad just asking.

[Qumanyoo]

not literally! mowlid... horta u nin misa naag?

[Seoma [Crawler2]]

many men have the desire. But what about the financial means?

i know sisters wont like it.

[Qumanyoo]

men will be men! at da end of the day u cant blame them...!

that statement doesnt mean im rooting for it tho...

if u can keep dem happy and dey both happy wit each other den i spose it aite...

[Seoma [Crawler2]]

what i was asking is would be part of the solution? many women can't find husbands. also many women now have no objection of getting married to a married man. would you share yours?

[Qumanyoo]

naaa...
i wouldnt but as one of the signs of judgement its says like 50 women to a man alie?

[Seoma [Crawler2]]

[quote="Qumanyoo"]not literally! mowlid... horta u nin misa naag?[/quote]

I am a sister.

[Lil_Cutie..]

We shouldnt abuse the idea, because it is something many of our Phrophets (pbuh) did!

But ideally.. Hell No! Just the thought creeps me out. To me it is beyond something I could even imagen. Maybe because my mother and father have been loyal to one another ever since they were young and got married thier love is still blossoming Alxamduilaah. So coming from that.. I dont even know anyone who has done this sort of thing.

To be fare, the man has got to be God Fearing 100%, a true believer and stable in his deen if it is going to work. The two women (or more) should be self aware and secure about themselves, not insecure and have low self esteem if it is to work. Otherwise, theres problems on each direction !!

Maybe Im just selfish. But remember, at the end of the day.. Marriage and having children is primarily (as well as other things, i.e love, companionship) is to 'produce' the future ummah, raise children under the name of Islam and as Allah's slaves. ..

There will come a day when there will be more women than men. So men will result to marrying more than one women, the day of recurreation will come when one man is to share 8 women.. Subxanallah!!

[Ashlee]

thorough post there, cutie. manshallah.

helllll noooo. i would not be the second or first wife to a man. he can't have multiple wives if i am to marry him.

[Qumanyoo]

exactly if thats the case then we would definetely have to take great consideration in what we wish to do.

[Lil_Cutie..]

Ash & Qum


I hate hearing women complaining walle, for me this is something I just wish 'not to talk about' .
I hear women (or young girls rather), saying it is not fair! How unjust when a man can marry more than one- even up to 4. But a women is limited to 1! How so.. blah blah..



I'm Like.. Hello?"? ..

[Ashlee]

it just ain't right for a woman to marry more than one man. i don't mind men marrying more than one woman, it's just that i wouldn't condone it for my husband.

[Seoma [Crawler2]]

Then you are part of the solution, mashallah.