[quote="Gogarad"][quote="Lord Diplock"]
It is very difficult to get the attention of somali ladies it must be said. God knows how badly some of us have been treated by them over the years i.e. just having the audacity to ask for a number or saying 'hi' to them

. who said Somali men 'control' their women? absolute nonsense.[/quote]
Lord,
I beg to differ on that one bro.. Yes there are the snoppy girls in every culture but Somali brothers don't take the initiative 2 approach the sisters when they like them..They will sit back, chill and warm the bloody walls before they grow a back bone and talk to the ladies..and that's not right..
Doesn't mean you (not necessarily u) were rejected once, twice or even three times that its difficult to get the attention of Somali women..Different strokes for different folks brother..
Just go ahead and talk to the girl u like and if you get rejected, wa cadiyoos..its a part of the game..[/quote]
Walaal I had the misfortune of being told to 'f*ck off' by a girl I thought highly off. We were mates for years and classmate and out of nowhere I made some advances, from that day, I have been cut adrift and I have given up on her.
I still believe the gist of your post as valid.