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Wives, what would be your reaction?

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby gedo_gurl » Thu Feb 22, 2007 6:51 pm

Im easily irritated, neurotic and possessive....Quite frankly I wouldnt stand for it.

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby Mystic_Angel » Thu Feb 22, 2007 6:53 pm

I'd tell her to leave him for good for even thinking about another spouse..

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby Salaan_Carabey » Fri Feb 23, 2007 10:49 am

[quote="Advocatar"]even though marrying more then one women is permitted, you have to have the blessing and support of your first wife, if she isnt ok with it, then what's the reason. me personally, I am good with one wife unless she dies or she cant bare kids.[/quote]


She can not say no, waa danbe!!!

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby Aiman » Fri Feb 23, 2007 10:58 am

I dislike women who are jealous.

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby kambuli » Fri Feb 23, 2007 11:06 am

Advoc.. quote " even though marrying more then one women is permitted, you have to have the blessing and support of your first wife, if she isnt ok with it, then what's the reason. me personally, I am good with one wife unless she dies or she cant bare kids.



There is nothing called "The blessing and support of the first wife" Actually the first wife is boiling inside and sad wallaahay...There was a case in which the first wife said Ok and she even offered to help them the first seven days( Toddoba Baxa) and she prepared the breakfast and everything. While they were in the table she just emptied and poured the hot tea from the thermos(Flask) into the head of the new one..

There was another case in which the older wife said when she was leaving them the first night as they(husband and the new wife) closed their door " Sariiraha uun ha jejebinina".... You think a sane person will talk like that? No walaal, walaahay they get insane and it isnot fair.. Sad

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby HELWAA » Fri Feb 23, 2007 11:24 am

i'm very jealous person i rather be alone then share a husband Sad

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby Dhaga Bacayl » Fri Feb 23, 2007 12:01 pm

Just because it is permitted (religiously) doesn’t mean you have to do it.

Dealing with ONE woman is enough headaches for me. I rather cheat than having multiple wives with multiple problems. Life should be simple.

Besides, you are not allowed to have threesome so what Is the point?
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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby eyes-only » Fri Feb 23, 2007 12:06 pm

Bac madoob with dharkiisa aan banaanka ugu xoorilahaa

What else can I say? I'm not my grandmother's generation to be accepting such shenanigans.

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby Aiman » Fri Feb 23, 2007 12:24 pm

[quote="eyes-only"]Bac madoob with dharkiisa aan banaanka ugu xoorilahaa

What else can I say? I'm not my grandmother's generation to be accepting such shenanigans.[/quote]

You are disappointing me sister!

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby HELWAA » Fri Feb 23, 2007 12:47 pm

When a man decide to have a second wife it means he dosent love his first wife anymore so why bother stay with him, he already replaced me with a new fresh young meat...lol Sad

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby Aiman » Fri Feb 23, 2007 12:58 pm

[quote="HELWAA"]When a man decide to have a second wife it means he dosent love his first wife anymore so why bother stay with him, he already replaced me with a new fresh young meat...lol Sad[/quote]


That is not true yaa Xilwa....you ladies won't understand even if I explain it.

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby qudhac-m » Fri Feb 23, 2007 1:12 pm

[quote="Aiman"]I dislike women who are jealous.[/quote]

I never thought the day you and agree on I something will come but on this one I agree with you 100%

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby Spragga Benz » Fri Feb 23, 2007 1:21 pm

[quote="Advocatar"]even though marrying more then one women is permitted, you have to have the blessing and support of your first wife, if she isnt ok with it, then what's the reason. [/quote]

my dad told me that I can marry another wife without the first one knowing anything about it. my grandpa married a wife a couple of years ago without my grandma's knowledge and he divorced that new wife after a few years.

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby HELWAA » Fri Feb 23, 2007 1:26 pm

[quote="Aiman"][quote="HELWAA"]When a man decide to have a second wife it means he dosent love his first wife anymore so why bother stay with him, he already replaced me with a new fresh young meat...lol Sad[/quote]


That is not true yaa Xilwa....you ladies won't understand even if I explain it.[/quote]


well try to explain it bro.........becouse i cant come up with onther reason when a man who have kids and a great wife get a second wife Shocked

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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?

Postby kambuli » Fri Feb 23, 2007 1:28 pm

Eyes and Helwaa,

We agree on this one... No to gododle and Xilla Gube yes to an honest and decent man...


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