Advoc.. quote " even though marrying more then one women is permitted, you have to have the blessing and support of your first wife, if she isnt ok with it, then what's the reason. me personally, I am good with one wife unless she dies or she cant bare kids.
There is nothing called "The blessing and support of the first wife" Actually the first wife is boiling inside and sad wallaahay...There was a case in which the first wife said Ok and she even offered to help them the first seven days( Toddoba Baxa) and she prepared the breakfast and everything. While they were in the table she just emptied and poured the hot tea from the thermos(Flask) into the head of the new one..
There was another case in which the older wife said when she was leaving them the first night as they(husband and the new wife) closed their door " Sariiraha uun ha jejebinina".... You think a sane person will talk like that? No walaal, walaahay they get insane and it isnot fair..
