House Guests Who Don't Want to Leave

[AbdiWahab252]

Any tips on getting rid of house guests who overstay their welcome especially relatives ?

[galia]

Abdiwahab have integrity never tell your relatives to leave your house, that's not somali behaviour, just have patince maybe they might leave on their on terms.

Don't say i never warned you.

[HELWAA]

The prophet(csw) said:

“When a guest comes to you, do serve him.”

This service is performed in three ways: Conditional, conversational, actual service.

Conditional service: A man should be pleased at the visit of a guest and give this impression of pleasure to the guest.

Conversational service: He should use pleasing words to his guest. Because the guest is away from home and he may be easily hurt. Heart-warming words should be said, so that he feels himself at home.

As for Actual service: He should make him comfortable. A host should serve his guest whatever Allah, the Exalted, has granted him. Because in an honorable Hadith, it is declared as follows:

“It is required to respect and serve the guest.”


Marka Abdi wahab..........gacan adeega intaad iska daysid so dhawee martida.

[Salaan_Carabey]

Reer xamarka walahi wax ka soo Dhowys fiican ma arag...

[kambuli]

C/W,

Tell us more of their situation... We cann't judge if we do not know the whole story...

Guests are different...:

Some have the right to overstay... Some don't.. and who do you call guests? Member of your families...

What I mean is that..for example some people like to be parasites and live on other people even though they can sustain themselves and they are saving their money, some people are really in need, some are just lazy and do not want to work...etc

Which category do they fall?

[Hyperactive]

guests should stay only three days. That is their rights on you.

[biko]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Any tips on getting rid of house guests who overstay their welcome especially relatives ?[/quote]




hints. if they dont get it, then everything you know they like or enjoy, you should rudly interrupt it. i.e...if they are watching something on tv that they are realy interested at, then just change the channel. preferably a show or program you know they hate. when they are talking on the phone "accidently" unhook the line with your feet or disconecte it. displace their shoes and hide it or trow one out. burp next to them when they are eating or let off a silence dhuso.

if that doesnt work...then just come out and say it blatantly...ADEER/HABO/INADEER...WAAD NAGU RAAGTEN EE GOORMAD TAGAYSAAN. KARAAHIDU MA FICNEE NA DHAAFA NOH, SHIDH!!!

[Enemy_Of_Mad_Mullah]

[quote]ADEER/HABO/INADEER...WAAD NAGU RAAGTEN EE GOORMAD TAGAYSAAN. KARAAHIDU MA FICNEE NA DHAAFA NOH, SHIDH!!![/quote]


Balaayo kugu dhacday

[sexy-kitten]

AW

Are you trying to chase them away? If so, buy a plant. Sleep with it at night. Talk to it. After a few weeks, start to argue with it loudly. Then yell, "I can't live in the same room with you," storm out of the room and slam the door. Get rid of the plant, but keep the pot. Refuse to discuss the plant ever again.

Or are you trying to get them to leave peacefully? If that's the case, then they might never leave!