Going down is HALAAL

[COSTA]

[quote="Gacalisa"]:lol: Helwaa walle tu kale baa ta'hay.

horta hore, God forbid that I would be in such a situation, but if so, I would take the same route your friend took.[/quote]

NAYA FIRST YOU HAVE TO THINK HOW TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE LITTLE CARAB NOT A BIG DEAL

[Dhaga Bacayl]

[quote="Gacalisa"]:lol: Runti S'net folks wax aad ka'hadashaan baad weeseen. I am sure every Muslim knows that oral sex is haram, so to the guys who are trying to find reason to get a blow job I suggest you quit![/quote]


NOT every muslim know it. If you do let us know please...


Quran is very precise and very clear of what is HARAM and what is HALAAL.

Where in the QURAN does it say it’s HARAM to perform oral SEX on your wife or husband? Provide the ayat and that will be it.

[COSTA]

[quote="eyes-only"]The only thing forbidden is anal and anything that makes the other person feel uncomfortable according to the sheikhs.[/quote]


SEE THAT WHAT THE ICU WOULD SAY

EYES ONLY THANKS

[Dhaga Bacayl]

[quote="eyes-only"]The only thing forbidden is anal and anything that makes the other person feel uncomfortable according to the sheikhs.[/quote]


Bingo!

[*HannaH*]

Helwa, You do what you have to do to please your husband. So long as it's not haram..and I don't think it is. Like Dhaga said the Quran is very clear and precise..Besides I don't think the guy would ask for it all the time. All gloves should be off with your husband/wife. But that's just my oppinion.

[Gacalisa]

Costa off course, anything to save the marraige, the situation Helwaa gave explained that the freak would take NO for an answer.


Dhaga Bacayl........Ok I understand your point, and your right the quran is very precise, but like the Islam teaches us, what you can't find in the Quran look for it in the Prophet's sunnah and Hadith.........so now tell me where in the hadith does is say its permisable to perform this act, and has the prophet ever done it because if he did that would automatically make it ok.

if its not in the hadith and in the prophets sunnah a Muslim knows for sure its not right.

[*HannaH*]

But Helwa, if the guy can't respect your decesion then there is a big, big problem and it's a sign of more things to come.
She probably made a smart choice.

[fagash_killer]

If you ask about oral sex, it has nothing to do with halal or haram, it is a matter of culture. Islamically, there is nothing haram in doing it.

[Lacageylacag]

[quote="LAFO-LAFO"] * Enter into her in the proper place only.

That pretty much rules out every thing else.

There is no way or need for me to do such a thing. I would divorce the woman if she insists on it.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

[quote="Gacalisa"]Costa off course, anything to save the marraige, the situation Helwaa gave explained that the freak would take NO for an answer.


Dhaga Bacayl........Ok I understand your point, and your right the quran is very precise, but like the Islam teaches us, what you can't find in the Quran look for it in the Prophet's sunnah and Hadith.........so now tell me where in the hadith does is say its permisable to perform this act, and has the prophet ever done it because if he did that would automatically make it ok.

if its not in the hadith and in the prophets sunnah a Muslim knows for sure its not right.[/quote]


I Agree with you 100%. The scholars say the prophet (SCW) didn’t practice it therefore isn’t RECOMMENDED. However, there is NO hadith saying the prophet (SCW) him self addressed this issue and advised us not do it because of these following reasons...…

Since there is no particular hadith from the prophet (SCW) regarding this issue than the prophet (SCW) DIDN’T say it was HARAM. There is a big difference.

The prophet gave everything he own to charity, I don’t think there is a Muslim on earth who gives away everything he/she owns. Just because you didn’t give everything you own to charity like the prophet did it didn’t make your wealth HARAM.

If there is AUTHENTIC hadith out there saying ..this is what the prophet (SCW) said please let me know.

[HELWAA]

[quote="Gacalisa"]:lol: Helwaa walle tu kale baa ta'hay.

horta hore, God forbid that I would be in such a situation, but if so, I would take the same route your friend took.[/quote]

sory for my late reply i was baking bread

looooooool gaclisa sorry sis hadaan xishoodsiyey.I was just making a point.Nimanki soomaaliyeed sidi hore mahaa, gaaldey baa lagu daydey mid kasta wuxu raba waxaa ay cadaanko ay sameeneyaan markaa arnitaan waa inaa shaaca loo soo saaro oo nimanka lo sheego runta.I dont want what happend to my friend happen to anybody els

[HELWAA]

[quote="*HannaH*"]But Helwa, if the guy can't respect your decesion then there is a big, big problem and it's a sign of more things to come.
She probably made a smart choice.[/quote]



HAnna the problem is mony somali couple dont talk about sex before they get married and they get shocked when they find out the truth about the other person.I have so mony stories that can blow your mind but i'm not gonna share it with these pple here

[The-Screw]

wow,

i mean, isn't this good news for everyone ? :}

[Nabeela]

^^Yeah I was wondering the same thing.

Whats the with the forth and back arguments people.

Eyes-only nailed it, you go girl.


Women: If you feel like doing something a little extra for your hubby than do it.


Man: If you feel like going down on your wife than do it.


See, simple.

[#1baller]

Wow...this is really funny. Most of you people claim us westerners are obsessed with sex yet everyday I log into this forum there's at the very least one thread associated with sexual intercourse or any type of sexual activity.

Makes you wonder who thinks about sex alot more.