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Pure_Soul · Post by **Pure_Soul** » Wed May 03, 2006 10:10 am

WATS UP MA LOVELY SISTA LISTEN A FREN OF MINE WANTS 2 GET MARRIED 2 A NON SOMALI BUT HE IS A MUSLIM AND HER FAMILY WOULD NOT LET HER SO SHE IS PLANNIN ON DOIN A RUNNER WIT HIM

AM TRYIN 2 HELP HER OUT BUT I DONT KNW WAT 2 TELL HER WALAHI..... CAN U SISTA HELP ME OUT AND HAS DIS HAPPENED 2 ANY1 HERE IF IT DID WAT DID YA DO

AND HAVE U SISTA HAVE EVEN THOUGHT OR CUM CLOSE 2 MARRYIN A NON SOMALI MUSLIM

Advocator · Post by **Advocator** » Wed May 03, 2006 10:03 pm

Tell That Hoe To Commit Suicide as soon as possible, fuking traiter, walahi they disguss me.

If the dhoocil aint taking advice from her parent, then what's the use of seeking advice from other people, it's not like we can grant her childish wishes.

Inaanilahi Wa'inalalilahu Raajacuun.

yasmin507 · Post by **yasmin507** » Wed May 03, 2006 10:27 pm

pure soul her parents are her blood they nurture her when she was infant and couldnt defend herself against mosquitos ok. i wouldnt led some due that i met yesterday to come between me and my family ishh Rolling Eyes

she gotta led him go cuz we alwayz cant have what we want Sad

decions are made under uncertainty Smile

advocator enough wit da name callin' Rolling Eyes

show some respect yaaqay she is just lil poor gurl who is strugglin' wit her decions u know some ppl cant determine their decions Smile

$un$hine · Post by **$un$hine** » Thu May 04, 2006 7:48 am

Without consent from her parents the wedding is no lawful..

Therefore any relation with her man, including as her ''husband'' will be decreed haraam...

If her man is a gud muslim...

And he prays..

Why dont her family take this into consideration??

ADVOCATOR..if somali men where not all arrogant, westernized and muslim only by name...

there'd be no need to luk elsewhere..

Watch ur language!

DANGIRL · Post by **DANGIRL** » Thu May 04, 2006 4:13 pm

^^I agree with everyone here without name calling advocator.

What the parents say goes thats how our culture been and will always be. No matter how sweet and kind the individual is if the parents says no it's no.At the end of the dayi f the guy decide to divorce you and leave you for another woman.Guess who'll you run back too your parents.

$un$hine · Post by **$un$hine** » Fri May 05, 2006 4:19 pm

Dangurl..I agree wit u sis..

tru..u will run back to ur parents..

''Blood is thicker than water'' after all...

Laakin its RELIGION..Not culture..

Without her fathers consent, or oldest living male relative..

Her wedding is unlawful!

DANGIRL · Post by **DANGIRL** » Fri May 05, 2006 7:54 pm

SunShine well said there sis!

The wedding maybe unlawful in the eyes of the adults but to the girl its just another way of rebeling against what the morals and values her parents taught her not to do.But down in the road she'll realise what she done was wrong,but i'm afraid now she'll choose the guy over her parents.

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