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Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

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Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby gemstar » Tue Mar 10, 2009 7:48 am

Lately I keep meeting young Somali girls who married Black guys.What surprised me was each newleywed girl was not happy. Each one was upset that not only the family disowned them but also the community. Each girl lists off the reason she can't marry a Somali guy, so angrily. But I am like you are married now it doesn't matter why you don't want to marry a Somalian. I find it sad that the young girls are recenly married but are so unhappy. But at the same time why are they surprised that their family and community are upset with them? Didn't they realize you sacrifce that when you marry someone else? You can't have your cake and eat it too.

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby FAH1223 » Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:36 pm

yeah a young girl like 18 got married to an african american guy few months ago

though the community hasn't disowned her or her family from my understanding

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby Gifted » Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:37 pm

^Very tolerant community you live in.

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby FAH1223 » Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:39 pm

Gifted wrote:^Very tolerant community you live in.


MY mom went to the wedding, its just a lot of people are shaking their heads... she isn't even in school

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby HELWAA » Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:40 pm

Bal maxaa nin ajnabiya oo geeyey horta oo shaqo isku lahayn... :arrow: :arrow:

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby Gifted » Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:41 pm

Were people looking dissapointed? Did she drop out or something?

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby FAH1223 » Tue Mar 10, 2009 2:07 pm

Gifted wrote:Were people looking dissapointed? Did she drop out or something?


nothing like that, i just heard talk and my parents were saying the same thing

just a head scratcher

oh well, its not my problem

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby Murax » Tue Mar 10, 2009 3:42 pm

Seriously whats wrong with marrying a black dude as long as He's Muslim?

The only thing I advice Somali girls is don't marry a loser from another race because it defeats the whole purpose. I know Somali girls who married White dudes, black dudes and are having great marriages. Marry anybody as long as their decent :up:

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby FAH1223 » Tue Mar 10, 2009 7:09 pm

Murax wrote:Seriously whats wrong with marrying a black dude as long as He's Muslim?

The only thing I advice Somali girls is don't marry a loser from another race because it defeats the whole purpose. I know Somali girls who married White dudes, black dudes and are having great marriages. Marry anybody as long as their decent :up:

:up: :up:

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby black velvet » Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:54 pm

Murax wrote:Seriously whats wrong with marrying a black dude as long as He's Muslim?

The only thing I advice Somali girls is don't marry a loser from another race because it defeats the whole purpose. I know Somali girls who married White dudes, black dudes and are having great marriages. Marry anybody as long as their decent :up:


:shock: :up: :up:

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby HasanReerowHasan » Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:49 am

Asalaamu aleykum waraxmatullah!
Why would anybody marry an ajnabi? I dont understand! COME ON! why cant you just find a beautifull decent somali boy who will treat you like a queen ( most of our somali women are QUEENS!)???!
I swear if you marry an ajnabi You will never have "the good" relationship as you would had if you marry somali!!
Ilaaheyow yaanan ajnabi guursan, Gabdhaha naga somaaliyeed walle wax gaaraya ma jiraan
maxaan ku falayaa ajnabi, cos an ajnabi would neva treat me the same as ma own somali sis would do!!

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby BaasAbuur » Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:51 am

FAH1223 wrote:
Gifted wrote:^Very tolerant community you live in.


MY mom went to the wedding, its just a lot of people are shaking their heads... she isn't even in school


Why did your mom go to the wedding and is the dude muslim?

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby BaasAbuur » Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:55 am

Horta, some people only think about the short term and do not realize the long term negative impacts of their decisions wallahi. This whole idea of marry whoever you want and be tolerant to everything waa wax laga fiicanyahay. Dhalinyaro badan oo aan aad u aqli badan ayaa meel cidlo ah isdhigi doono taking this kind of advice.

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby FAH1223 » Fri Mar 13, 2009 11:24 am

BaasAbuur wrote:
FAH1223 wrote:
Gifted wrote:^Very tolerant community you live in.


MY mom went to the wedding, its just a lot of people are shaking their heads... she isn't even in school


Why did your mom go to the wedding and is the dude muslim?


because she knows them and loves all the girls in that family

yeah apparently dude converted to islam

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Re: Lately Somali girls marry Black guys, but are not happy

Postby mahdi01 » Sun Mar 15, 2009 2:54 am

Nice Topic,

diintu wey ogashey in islaamnimada la isku guursado, laakiin soomaalida qurbaha joogta rag iyo dumar waxaan kula talinayaa iney wax badan ka fiirsadaan guurka ajnabiga, dhalinyarooy qof aan hooyo iyo aabe muslin ah dhalin laguna barbaarin edaab iyo dhaqan toosan guurkiisu meel dheer ma gaarayo, looma guursado qurux iyo dhaqaale waxaa loo guursadaa in gurigaas laga helo nolol degan oo farxad iyo is faham leh, guurka ajnabiga waa guur shaki ku dhisan oo labada qof ee is qaba ey weligood barasho isugu dhiman tahey. hadii is faham daro dhacdo waxaa laga yaabaa sida caadada u ah dalalkan reer galbeedka in qofkii kale la qaarijiyo. inta badan dadka soo islaamey ee bulshada madoow waa kuwo xabsiyada ku muslimey oo aan diinta aqoon fiican u laheyn, mana yaqaanan dhaqankii islaamka lagu yaqaaney ee anshaxa haweenka xaasaska ah lagula dhaqmo.

guurka ajnabiga waa xoriyad la'aan iyo dadkaaga oo aad ka go'do, waxaa dhacda marar badan in labada qof ee is qabta eysan dhex maran kaftan iyo sheekooyin badan, waxaa dhacda in raashinka kala duwan ee caadooyinka lagusoo kala korey ey is qaban waayaan oo halkaa laba cuno lakala karsado, waxaa dhacda in hadii mid ey dadkiisu soo booqdaan kan kale inuu noqdo Alien isagoo guriigiisii dhex jooga, waxaa dhacda in hadii la isku dhaco ey markiiba is furaan maxaa yeeley malaha dad dhex geli karo oo labaduba ku kalsoon yihiin.

waxaan soo ogaadey raga reer galbeedka ee raadiya guurka dumarka islaamka iney yihiin rag ey ku adkaatey xiriirka haweenkooda oo raadinaya dumar jilicsan oo ey ku tuntaan xuquuqdooda arintaa waxaa ka warantey gabadhii ka tirsaneyd boqortooyadii reer bahrain ee la baxsatey askarigii mareykanka ahaa ka dib markii ey dalkeedii dib ugu noqotey.

waxaa lasoo ogaadey in beniaadamka sidiisaba qofka ugu dhow ee ey sida fiican isu yaqaanaan iney ugu fiican tahey guurkiisa, iska daa ajnabiga kale ee waxaan dadka kula talin lahaa si loo helo guryo fiican oo nabad iyo is jaceyl lagu wada nool yahey in wiilka iyo gabadha isla ah reer kismaayo ama reer hargeysa ama reer Jijiga iney is guursadaan si loo yareeyo furiinka macno darada ah ee sidii dalku u burburey soomaalida kusoo batey, macnaheygu waa guurka waxaa ugu daran SURPRISESKA in labada qof uu midkood kan kale u laheyn aqoon hoose oo halkaas lagu kala boodo, waxaa dhacda in laba qof oo taleefan mudo yar ku sheekeystey iney is guursadaan oo aqoonta ey isu leeyihiin ey aad u hooseyso taas ayaana sabab u ah furiinka tirada badan. marka waa in loo tabaabusheystaa guurka oo aanan waqti aad u badana lagu lumin raadintiisa, waqti yarna lala soo boodin oo marka hore laga wada hadlo wax walba oo qoyskaas dhidabadiisa adkeyn kara...


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