what's ur point of view?

suga_n_spice · Postby **suga_n_spice** » Wed May 13, 2009 3:53 pm

besides a evil mother-in-law i worry about the women my brothers will bring home, but i never interfere with their relationships and they don't with mine. i mean as their sister, if they want to introduce me i don't mind, but seriously badaas ma galo. every now and then, i want to know what type of girls they're datin, but that's as far as i go.

seriously though, should siblings set each other up?! :roll:

is this appropriate?!

shaamboo · Postby **shaamboo** » Wed May 13, 2009 3:58 pm

are you younger or older , in any case its not something nice to interfere or shall i say NEVER INTERFERE your brothers and sisters relationships ?? i have learned my lessons

Muhammad bin Harti · Postby **Muhammad bin Harti** » Wed May 13, 2009 3:59 pm

who lets their sister "date"? what has the west done to our girls?

shaamboo · Postby **shaamboo** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:01 pm

Muhammad bin Harti wrote:who lets their sister "date"? what has the west done to our girls?

sxb sheekadaas ma soconeeyso

adiga u want date right but you dont want someone date your sister ( to findout if she is the choosen one for a marriage??)

suga_n_spice · Postby **suga_n_spice** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:03 pm

shaamboo, interfering and introducin them is different saxiib. walashaa nin ma bari laheed?!

MBH, there are different interpretations of what "datin" means.

Muhammad bin Harti · Postby **Muhammad bin Harti** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:04 pm

what is this kiss-kiss-chris-brown-dating-bullshit your talking about? "dateing" is another word for pre-marriage "physical contact".

SummerRain · Postby **SummerRain** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:07 pm

I dont care who my brother brings home as long as he is happy.

Buhodle-Gurl · Postby **Buhodle-Gurl** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:10 pm

I luv my sister-in-law. She's soo adorable. :up:

And Hell No. I wouldn't set my brother up for a date. what the hell. :lol:

suga_n_spice · Postby **suga_n_spice** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:11 pm

not really!

there are lotz of couple's that don't engage in physical contact before marriage. gabadha iyo wiilka wee wada hadli karaan if marriage is their intention.

ismahan, r u sure?! ma naag waxaad rabtaa xin badan?!

S-D-M · Postby **S-D-M** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:12 pm

Ismahan123 wrote:I dont care who my brother brings home as long as he is happy.

Don't say that....He may bring a dude :down:

shaamboo · Postby **shaamboo** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:13 pm

suga_n_spice wrote:shaamboo, interfering and introducin them is different saxiib. walashaa nin ma bari laheed?!

MBH, there are different interpretations of what "datin" means.

walaasheey hadii nin xalaal uu rabo in uu ku guursado Yes i would have done that . How this is different from marriage list that hangs in some masjids where u go and find a muslima??

MH
you are wrong again sxb first if your sister/s want to fck around there is nothing u can do about it they will do it .
remember women are much more smarter then men so my advise have faith and respect your sister/s

secondly, there is a difference between Dating and dating .

suga_n_spice · Postby **suga_n_spice** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:16 pm

shaambo i agree, but saxiib, the masjid and u as a brother are totally different. it's kinda of an 'ego' thing dee

Firefly · Postby **Firefly** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:16 pm

I get along with both my sister-in-laws. Alhamdulillah. Best thing to do, is not to get too involved, but try to be supportive.

Buhodle-Gurl · Postby **Buhodle-Gurl** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:17 pm

S-D-M wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:I dont care who my brother brings home as long as he is happy.

Don't say that....He may bring a dude

SummerRain · Postby **SummerRain** » Wed May 13, 2009 4:19 pm

S-D-M wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:I dont care who my brother brings home as long as he is happy.

Don't say that....He may bring a dude

Ragganimada walaalkay is something you can only dream off najisyahow. :down:

Suga,

in my family, we always welcome who ever marries into us with open mind and arms. Hadi ee cilaad xuun qabaadna wa ka gaabsana, after all she/he is not living or sleeping with me. Daadka space hadaad siso, the love will always be there along with respect.

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