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Rubbish, wrong is wrong no matter who does it. If a girl does it she's loose, if a guy does it he's loose. Come to think of it, such people should marry each other so Murax maybe you are right in a totally different plane, maybe you should get experience so that you can get the girl you really want. Play the field, get 'experience' and when you're ready to settle down Inshallah may you, and the men you are talking about, be blessed with wives who carry themselves in exactly the same way that you do.
Why are you being so coy all of a sudden? I thought we were talking about Your Boy and how it was his prerogative to be loose...and birds of a feather...
First of all do not think I am talking about myself, no need to inject Me in this I'm just a miskeen dude
That being said I look at all sides/angles. Ofcourse its wrong for a girl to get the label as lose or a hoe, for being with a lot of different guys and the guy getting a pass as a player. Even in My family if I was to go out and the family heard about stuff I was doing as a girl, My Dad would just be like "Wiilka iska dhaaf He's just being a Man". If it was My Sister (WOuld never happen) It would be literily the end of the world. Whether right or wrong and whether u and I agree with them or not, the stuff I mentioned is how things shake down at the end of the day. Just because I recognize and notice these things doesn't mean I delve into it myself
Why are you being so coy all of a sudden? I thought we were talking about Your Boy and how it was his prerogative to be loose...and birds of a feather...
First of all do not think I am talking about myself, no need to inject Me in this I'm just a miskeen dude
That being said I look at all sides/angles. Ofcourse its wrong for a girl to get the label as lose or a hoe, for being with a lot of different guys and the guy getting a pass as a player. Even in My family if I was to go out and the family heard about stuff I was doing as a girl, My Dad would just be like "Wiilka iska dhaaf He's just being a Man". If it was My Sister (WOuld never happen) It would be literily the end of the world. Whether right or wrong and whether u and I agree with them or not, the stuff I mentioned is how things shake down at the end of the day. Just because I recognize and notice these things doesn't mean I delve into it myself
Jokes aside though I am glad we have come to the conclusion that this gender prejudice is infact wrong.
Warsan it would be understandable if it's the way you say it, he was talking to one, she wasn't right, talked to the other who he knew was more what he wanted and she was perfect. That is reasonable lakin 10 times? 10 girls who are all friends? If that isn't a red light I don't know what is.I mean they are just TALKING to each other, and then it turns out they don't suit. He then speaks to her friend who he also knows is a good girl, voila, it works out they get married. Kan problemo? Meh, I don't see any problems to that.
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