Your Ideal Man

[BlackVelvet]

How long will you wait?

Notice I said Your perfect (ideal) man, not The perfect man who is a fictional character.

I was having a conversation with someone and it occurred to me that past a certain age, for a lot of women, kids start to become more important than the man, who just becomes a means to the end. So I guess my question is would you settle for less than your ideal? Or did you ever actually believe that the ideal was ever possible in the first place?

[DisplacedDiraac]

I dont believe in the perfect man or my perfect man..

I'm good at compromising

[Complicated19]

I dont believe in the perfect man or my perfect man..

I'm good at compromising

West, have u given up hope?

Mise, u just know that noone is perfect and everyone has flaws?

[BlackVelvet]

WestLdn

What if the word 'Perfect' was changed to 'Ideal'?

Would you say you believe in an Ideal man?

[Complicated19]

ideal man....ninku ma situation baa?

[DisplacedDiraac]

West, have u given up hope?

Mise, u just know that noone is perfect and everyone has flaws?

^The latter one..
I know myself.. I sure aint no-where near perfect..


Ideal you say.... Hmmm Yeah I suppose I sorta do..

To answer your question.. After a certain age *30*.. I would have to settle for something less or just become my 'ideal' mans 2nd wife

[BlackVelvet]

ideal man....ninku ma situation baa?

Haa waa situtation. A situation that could remain a constant for the rest of your life

The latter one..
I know myself.. I sure aint no-where near perfect..


Ideal you say.... Hmmm Yeah I suppose I sorta do..

To answer your question.. After a certain age *30*.. I would have to settle for something less or just become my 'ideal' mans 2nd wife
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@ ideal man's second wife.

Would your ideal man take a second wife? 30 is the Somali female's boogyman I've come to realise.

[Complicated19]

West, have u given up hope?

Mise, u just know that noone is perfect and everyone has flaws?

^The latter one..
I know myself.. I sure aint no-where near perfect..
I get what you mean...noone is perfect.

Ideal you say.... Hmmm Yeah I suppose I sorta do..

To answer your question.. After a certain age *30*.. I would have to settle for something less or just become my 'ideal' mans 2nd wife

Imagine the feeling a woman must have the day before her 30th birthday and she is still single..

[DisplacedDiraac]

Would your ideal man take a second wife? 30 is the Somali female's boogyman I've come to realise.

Lol.. Good one.. No he wouldn't..
But marmar you need to compromise.. Especially at that age *30*. And as time goes by the concept of your 'ideal' man changes!

To be honest I dont even know what my ideal type is.. I need to think about this!

Anyway... I'm waiting till you answer your own question

[BlackVelvet]

lol I haven't answered it have I.

My idea of the Ideal man is just a basic structure and without it I wouldn't be attracted to or want to have a family with that man. You're right about the Perfect man, perfect is a heavy word to carry around. If we take a car metaphor my perfect man would have all the extra cosmetics, black on black, lush leather intrerior, personal specifications to him but my ideal man would be the actual type of car and that I would not compromise on, probably even after I hit 30.

Probably when I'm 27 I'd give up on the leather interior and alloy wheels but less than that I couldn't because I'm not a mechanic

[HELWAA]

Nobody is perfect but Allah swt....qof akhlaaq iyo deen leh hadaad heshid iska guurso...kaasa ku anfacaya aakhiro iyo addunba .

[DisplacedDiraac]

lol I haven't answered it have I.

My idea of the Ideal man is just a basic structure and without it I wouldn't be attracted to or want to have a family with that man. You're right about the Perfect man, perfect is a heavy word to carry around. If we take a car metaphor my perfect man would have all the extra cosmetics, black on black, lush leather intrerior, personal specifications to him but my ideal man would be the actual type of car and that I would not compromise on, probably even after I hit 30.

Probably when I'm 27 I'd give up on the leather interior and alloy wheels but less than that I couldn't because I'm not a mechanic

Nicely put..
To be honest I couldn't and wouldn't compromise on character.. But I can on looks I can come down from a 9 to a 6.. But I could never settle for a wasteman regardless of my age

Btw welcome back Helwa..

[HELWAA]

Thanx West

[BlackVelvet]

WestLdn 9 miyaad joogta hada?

Looks have never been that important to me honestly speaking. I've never fancied the hot guy that all the girls were after, I find them a bit vain and annoying.

Helwaa waa run I shouldn't have said Perfect, lakin all that means is you want 100% of what you're looking for. How much of that would you compromise on adiga do you think? 50%, 70%, 20%, 90% ?

[DisplacedDiraac]

WestLdn 9 miyaad joogta hada?

Looks have never been that important to me honestly speaking. I've never fancied the hot guy that all the girls were after, I find them a bit vain and annoying.

@ 9 miyaad joogta hada

Just because I post old men now and again doesn't mean I have a wack taste..

You know what.. I've never really fancied a guy *except maybe 1*.. Anyway I have a ideal look in my head/mind but I've never seen him nor a guy who comes close to him in real life nor on TV/magz..
I suppose I have an unrealistic taste in men..

Plus I've never been into the typical hot guys girls run after either.. They look xuux compared to the ideal guy in my mind