I think it's risky thing to do but you'll hear all kind of stories but only God knows how it would turn out to be; ..the good thing about most guys back in home is obviously their dhaqan and diin but even with that it's not guaranteed that it would work. I know this girl who wanna marry a guy in kenya she met over the internet and is doing everything possible she can do to get him her and they haven't even met..everyone has advised her not to do it cause he is most likely using her to come to europe and that's a normal thing to do for people in africa they will do anything to come her..so I wouldn't take the risk.
There was this man who tricked a woman to marry and sponsor him ..only to switch flight at transit and go to other woman he loved who lived in other european country and she also knew about the plan all along. Bal imagine the poor women who have thrown party, buy whole new furniture and all kind of things getting the news the man isn't coming.
