Obsessive partners

[TeAmo]

How obsessive can you guys get when your in a relationship married or otherwise. How much are you willing to do for someone even though it might look embarrassing on your part? Have you ever gone through your partners phone? Or followed them? My friends fiancée followed/stalked her coz he heared rumours from his "boys" that she was speaking to another guy. Shall we say trust issues? My other friends ex boyfriend used to confiscate her mobile phone, even went as far as picking her up from work, friends house, Uni etc I don't think he did this out if jealousy or fear she might find someone else but did it to be in control. I remember when I asked this guy I'm with if he wants to go out together he said he was going out with his friends to watch a movie, didn't believe him so I found out if he was rly going cinema and what cinema and showed up there with a mate to watch the same movie and acted like it was a coincidence and sat with them

[daiman]

sometimes it is better not to know who the other person's talking to. like the women who he works with etc....because somtiems they way a female co-oworker relates to your husband or they person you are going out with can make you feel jealous. I have been in a situation that I went to the work-place of someone whom I was talking to for a while....the guy loved me more than anything, but I felt jealous when a female co-worker said to another ' Sandar is with ( X) downsstair. I felt an outsider and that those women are loser to him that me etc........
I started working out a way to dislike the guy...and walahi I did at the end He has not done anything to me, it was that jealous thing I flet that day. Never went. I stared comparing myself with those women ........

jealous is not good. I would never look at someone's mobile or email. That is just calling problems for yourself.

[TeAmo]

You stopped liking someone because of his relationship with his colleagues Your not caadi that's jealousy on another level but your right it's part of being a woman to be jealous. I have a habit of going through their phone I'm not always suspicious but just in case just to know im in control of things and he cnt mess about with me, Yhh am a bit controlling but I Wudnt ask for their social networking passwords that's just asking for a break up

[Lillaahiya]

@ going to the cinema and pretending it was all a coincidence. Kalsooni la'aantu hinaasi bey keenta. Suspicion isn't a good thing at all

[witheredfleur]

I'd go through his phone out of curiosity whether he's there or not tbh if I found some very blatant evidence of something I didn't like, I'd drop him. probably without explaining myself

I'd never stalk someone I'm supposed to trust, imagine getting caught looooool I'd burst into hysterical laughter from the embarrassment and they'd think I was just being a happy little prick

if any guy ever tried to treat me like his loose ciyaal sister by confiscating my phone and picking me up just because he wanted to be in control...........well I really enjoy asserting my dominance over mudarfackars like that dude

looooool how did he react when he saw you in the same cinema?

[greenday]

If they are going macelikarta ee kula tahay. No point in obsessing over someone you cant control.

[TeAmo]

I'd go through his phone out of curiosity whether he's there or not tbh if I found some very blatant evidence of something I didn't like, I'd drop him. probably without explaining myself

I'd never stalk someone I'm supposed to trust, imagine getting caught looooool I'd burst into hysterical laughter from the embarrassment and they'd think I was just being a happy little prick

if any guy ever tried to treat me like his loose ciyaal sister by confiscating my phone and picking me up just because he wanted to be in control...........well I really enjoy asserting my dominance over mudarfackars like that dude

looooool how did he react when he saw you in the same cinema?

He was shocked and embarassed loool I got into trouble, he knew it wasn't a coincident lool The movie finished at 1 in the night and I had to bus it home coz he was mad so I didn't get a drop home by the time I got home it was nearly 3 think I learnt my lesson not to play tricks like that well atleast not at night times when I need a lift. I'd never stalk someone I don't have time for that My friend loved the guy wallahi she used to cry when they have an argument coz he would shout at her and call her names alhamdulilah now they split up.

[Tuushi]

@ going to the cinema and pretending it was all a coincidence. Kalsooni la'aantu hinaasi bey keenta. Suspicion isn't a good thing at all

Sounds like a scene from a movie.

[witheredfleur]

He was shocked and embarassed loool I got into trouble, he knew it wasn't a coincident lool The movie finished at 1 in the night and I had to bus it home coz he was mad so I didn't get a drop home by the time I got home it was nearly 3 think I learnt my lesson not to play tricks like that well atleast not at night times when I need a lift. I'd never stalk someone I don't have time for that My friend loved the guy wallahi she used to cry when they have an argument coz he would shout at her and call her names alhamdulilah now they split up.

you joker