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ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

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Re: ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

Postby BlackVelvet » Mon Sep 03, 2012 12:51 pm

BV, Can you imagine chatting to 8 guys, sooner or later you'll forget which one said this or that.... :-O

8 is kinda greedy and indecisive lakin it does improve your multi-tasking skills :lol:

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Re: ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

Postby VeiledGarbasar » Mon Sep 03, 2012 5:29 pm

@ Alpha,

At the beginning it starts with a guy liking a girl and vice-versa and simply talking, but obviously after they see that they are suited, they think well next is marriage? Since they are both of age and can get married, sometimes one person doesn't want to get married but never tells the other person this, and by then the girl/guy is already into this person and rides the years away. The worst offenders are the ones that say we'll get married then somehow something comes up, not just once or twice, but as much as three or four times. It is only the family and close individuals that can see what is going on usually.

You can imagine why that sort of person doesn't talk to another person? (or thinks they are been lead-on) They are already in love with that person or extremely attached to them.
It can be very sad indeed.

But dnt u learn that a little earlier when u still have a chance to exit before kids or heavy attachements come into play.

I know what u mean.They fall in love and make themselves believe time will change the person.

I know it might sound heartless and cold,but no one should subject themselves into being married to a family that dislikes u.The moment u realize u r not wanted there(i am not talking abt his sisters getting territorial etc) but seriously dislike by his parents,walk away.
I agree with you!

One must exit before heavy attachment comes into play.

Sometimes, it is just best to stick with talking for purpose of marriage only, then you are more clear headed and more likely to make a quick exit, ileen you have a target then. :lol:

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Re: ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

Postby Alphanumeric » Mon Sep 03, 2012 5:37 pm

In the end it's a waste of time, huh? You either get burnt or opt for something immediate but empty.

Why bother? :)

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Re: ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

Postby Lillaahiya » Thu Sep 06, 2012 10:35 pm

Being the side chick sucks -_________________________-

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Re: ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

Postby MrSinister » Fri Sep 07, 2012 9:12 am

Labada ba iska was and then acudubilayso. There is a reason made women more numerous than men.

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Re: ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

Postby Shirwac_1 » Tue Sep 11, 2012 8:45 am

Alwright playa.

Lately is more like can you handle only 1 chick.

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Re: ever been in more than 1 relationship ? can it work ??

Postby SelfD » Thu Sep 13, 2012 9:19 am

I have a scenerio from a sister that I know. I am inexperienced so I have no way of helping her.

She's still single but is chatting with 2 brothers. Now one of them she can actually see herself marrying and the other its still undecided.
The problem is that the first brother is shy and hasn't done much to show her he's actually interested..so she doubts his interest. The second brother shows he's interested and so far there's nothin wrong with him a part from he doesn't pray. Her worry is that these 2 guys know each other and may start talking or that guy # 2 might ask to make the relationship exclusive before she finds out guy #1 feelings for her and intent.

Whats a girl to do?


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