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To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 6:37 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
When it comes to giving gifts to females.. especially when it is something pricey.. do you take it back *or would you take it back* when you are no longer together?.. Or is a gift a gift and theirs to keep?...
Females - Would you give it back if he asked for it back?.. 
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 6:48 pm
by Insomniac
Pride/ego won't let me take it back.
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 6:55 pm
by QaaliDumar
Akhas, waa wax laga yaqyaqsiyoodo. Ma hadiyad uu i siiyay ayuu ceshan?
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 6:59 pm
by ManD333q
Loool who the hell takes a gift back that's saqajanimo iyo nus.
Haa waan siin lahaa, maxaan ku falaya wax layidhi soo celi
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:00 pm
by AgentOfChaos
When it comes to giving gifts to females.. especially when it is something pricey.. do you take it back *or would you take it back* when you are no longer together?
Hell no!
is a gift a gift and theirs to keep?
Yes
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:20 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
Reason why I ask is because some men do ask for gifts back.. I doubt its a rare thing..
Was just viewing cheaters and some guy demanded his cheating partner to give back the weave and handbag he had brought her..
Apparently Boxer Mayweather is one of these emotional men also..
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:23 pm
by Insomniac
Cheaters
African Americans
Mayweather
I see your problem. Maybe you should ask the coli.
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:25 pm
by Tuushi
A weave she problem wore? How petty.
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:29 pm
by SultanOrder
Probably men who think gifts entitle them to something in return, hence as soon as they are not getting a return feel they are entitled to their gift. I would classify this as a lease and not a gift. Since it is subject to a return.
Ladies, make sure you ask them if it is a gift and not a lease.
Men, make sure a contract is drawn if it is a lease and not a gift.
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:31 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:34 pm
by Tuushi
Problem=probably.
Maybe he knew how much she loved that specific weave.
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:40 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
Or perhaps the weave was what attracted her sideman..
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 4:04 am
by BlackVelvet
The weave thing he obviously did it to humiliate her, he'd probably throw it in the trash afterwards. Petty, but if it makes him feel better then so be it
It's like to the left, taking back the fleece he's wearing just because she paid for it. It must sting, if you splash out on someone and then they stab you in the back
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 4:45 am
by MrPrestige
It depends what kind of gift. If it is a expensive ring or necklace, then that is similar to asking the engagement ring you gave her back.
Re: To the brothers: taking back gifts. .
Posted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 5:04 am
by Hawdian
Real men don't ask for it back. Let it go and just restart with a new Xalimo. If its a just a GF that's another story, I do kick her azz and take it back by force. Tas oo kale xaaq ma laha but if she was a wife and especially she has kids for you, even if its a house let it go...