Would you ever change for a man?

Cherine · Postby **Cherine** » Mon Jan 27, 2014 6:20 am

Can you girls see yourselves uprooting to a different country for a guy? Does it depend on the country

DisplacedDiraac · Postby **DisplacedDiraac** » Mon Jan 27, 2014 8:50 am

No!

Can you girls see yourselves uprooting to a different country for a guy? Does it depend on the country

Yes..

saacJabshee · Postby **saacJabshee** » Mon Jan 27, 2014 9:29 am

What a stupid thread. Can you please keep the hijab out of your "relationdship" threads. This is not the first thread I've seen where the hijab is made out to be something that men demand.

:snoop:

Warabaha · Postby **Warabaha** » Mon Jan 27, 2014 9:34 am

What a stupid thread. Can you please keep the hijab out of your "relationdship" threads. This is not the first thread I've seen where the hijab is made out to be something that men demand.

Somali women are all potential ayan hirsi

Vivacious · Postby **Vivacious** » Mon Jan 27, 2014 1:11 pm

Can you girls see yourselves uprooting to a different country for a guy? Does it depend on the country

Yeah it depends on the country. As long as it's not far away from where my family lives then I got no problem.

Tuushi · Postby **Tuushi** » Mon Jan 27, 2014 1:23 pm

For the better?Maybe subtly without even noticing much.

We r influenced by those around us.

Cherine · Postby **Cherine** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 12:59 am

No!

Can you girls see yourselves uprooting to a different country for a guy? Does it depend on the country
Yes..

So what countries you wouldn't relocate to? Or you don't mind

Cherine · Postby **Cherine** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:04 am

What a stupid thread. Can you please keep the hijab out of your "relationdship" threads. This is not the first thread I've seen where the hijab is made out to be something that men demand.

the irony. I've seen you demand women wear nothing short of jilbab quite a few times.

Lillaahiya · Postby **Lillaahiya** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:18 am

You're underestimating how impressionable people can be in general. Your opinion/conduct could be changed by attending 1 lecture, or reading a book, or just experiencing/being in a certain situation. Its pretty rare to find someone who stays and thinks the exact same way after college, let alone marriage.

Postby **SultanOrder** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:41 am

You're underestimating how impressionable people can be in general. Your opinion/conduct could be changed by attending 1 lecture, or reading a book, or just experiencing/being in a certain situation. Its pretty rare to find someone who stays and thinks the exact same way after college, let alone marriage.

We were made for each other

Lillaahiya · Postby **Lillaahiya** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:48 am

Cake up and it'll happen.

Postby **SultanOrder** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:49 am

I fear communication will be a problem, do I still slay you?

Lillaahiya · Postby **Lillaahiya** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 7:18 am

Im funny enough for the both of us boo

zulaika · Postby **zulaika** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 1:39 pm

before entering into a long term relationship with a man such as a marriage, it's best to sort out all inhibitions/antagonist views. an inner reconciliation if u will.. with a lot of the issues dogging the single female mind. if the idea of compromise, which is essential in a relationship, is repulsive to you, marriage is not for u...

Cherine · Postby **Cherine** » Tue Jan 28, 2014 9:19 pm

Lillahiya I'm talking about people expecting overnight changes from you. What you're talking about is gradual change which is healthier, that doesn't come about from force/pressure. Changing too much to the point where you're unrecognisable is problematic too.

Zuleikha I agree marriage is all about compromise. Somalida taas aa ku yar, hence the high divorce rate.

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