Would you ever change for a man?

[Lillaahiya]

Depends on what those changes are and if I view them as positive.

[ManD333q]

Marriage is about compromising so if the changes are for the better why not, but those changes have to come from within yourself and not imposed on you.
No one likes to be given orders especially on how to dress…markaa these stuff should be discussed before marriage.

[LeJusticier]

What a stupid thread. Can you please keep the hijab out of your "relationdship" threads. This is not the first thread I've seen where the hijab is made out to be something that men demand.

Somali women are all potential ayan hirsi

You need to respect the rule of Somalinet otherwise you can lose your membership privileges

Le justicier

[Navy9]

E.g
If you don't wear hijab or you do and he deems it not 'asturan' enough (even if you wear it, just imagine you didn't, would you put it on for a man)
if you wear surwaal and he tells you I don't want to ever see you in one.(again imagine you were it, if you don't already)
If he told you that he will be the one who will go out there and work and bring the money. What will you reply with.

I believe once a person grows up and becomes an adult, a person can not radically change, modify maybe but a complete transformation/change, I doubt it. A woman, or a man for that matter, can possibly modify certain aspects in their lives/attitudes to please their significant other, that is called meeting the other person half way or compromise. But compromise works only if the other person is willing to do so otherwise, if one party feels he/she is giving up more than the other, it will be a crisis in the making.

Would I give up working if he tells me so, sure why not only if he makes double my income and I be the sole financial manager of the household (i.e. he has no say in his income). If I get that, I will do it in a heartbeat.

[Suleiman117]

I would accept my wife as she is.