Female kacsi - taboo or myth?

[zulaika]

Walahi war baa iga dambeeye,

Yummy, walalo waan ku salaamey first..

Laakin huuno, the way u frame this question is much less inclined with female thought. It is men who get off on the sight of attractive female, women approach these types feelings from an emotional angle... It's difficult to apply this to a strange guy who happens to look good.

[YummyMummy]

Zulaika macaaney iska waran darling? Hope you, Hubby and the little ones are well. You've been missed

Walaashey I intended us to start off this topic in a tongue-in-cheek way but to address whether it is a myth or an unspoken fact (taboo). Clearly the overwhelming feedbacks says that it is the latter, with culture and deen preventing us from acknowledging this. I completely agree with your viewpoint which a few other sisters, but some women undeniably also have those desires (e.g. what salome did to yahya caleyhi salaam, and the story of Yusuf caleyhi salaam & the King's wife).

[xiimaaya]

What does is feel to cum inside woman?

[BlackVelvet]

What the question says: is it a taboo or myth?

Basically, the DailyFail has peed me right off. I am trying to be very ladylike and discrete but Allahu tacaala aclam what's on my mind.
In one day, I am to cope with Halle Berry's baby-loving model ex, that qadhadhaf (read: rough & rugged) accessory that Sofia Vergara takes with her everywhere, and who the freak are those men posing around Amber Rose?

No, do not post the pics here, I do not intend for others to share the danbi or to get the thread moved to extreme.

Be honest ladies, when nice men are around you, how would you like to act and how do you really act?
NB: Nice is used here to replace less xalaal words/phrases which you may indulge in your mind instead.

The thread has gone off in multiple directions but I will answer the question you posed originally



Be honest ladies, when nice men are around you, how would you like to act and how do you really act?


If by nice you mean attractive, which I am assuming you do (why did you censor that )

I would like to act very sophisticated, I look at him and I'm like in my head but I give eye contact and smile.

In reality when I happen to see a physically attractive man which is not that often I am awe stuck by the beauty, attraction doesn't really play into it because as corny as it sounds I fall for personality. So when I see said specimen I always think of them as beautiful not manly or sexual

The one attractive man I have been around (went from a 6.5 to a 9.5 as I got to know him), he's Somali, I act like a complete awkward socially-inept dork. I would have liked to beat him at his own flirtatious game but I have 0 game so...

In terms of the kacsi argument, females are human beings. We are taught from an early age to keep those legs crossed whereas guys are given more freedom (they are not the ones who will come home pregnant). So this "oh my God how could you bring this topic up" outrage is more about social pressure than actual beliefs. With Somalis in particular it is ingrained to not only find the conversation ceeb but some are convinced that females do not experience this at all.

"This" may be called many things in different languages but it serves a purpose and that is to breed and pass on your genes so anyone who says they do not get that urge is a liar. Or they need to go see a doctor.

[Sophisticate]

BV since when did you come back .

[YummyMummy]

In terms of the kacsi argument, females are human beings. We are taught from an early age to keep those legs crossed whereas guys are given more freedom (they are not the ones who will come home pregnant). So this "oh my God how could you bring this topic up" outrage is more about social pressure than actual beliefs. With Somalis in particular it is ingrained to not only find the conversation ceeb but some are convinced that females do not experience this at all.

"This" may be called many things in different languages but it serves a purpose and that is to breed and pass on your genes so anyone who says they do not get that urge is a liar. Or they need to go see a doctor.

Thank you, probably the most direct, evaluative & nuanced feedback on the thread thus far. The enlarged text in particular = exactly what I wanted to convey.

[zulaika]

Yummy,

BV mentioned how she does not see a guy who catches her eye as physically wanting...and a mans attractiveness grows on a woman through personality observation..

It's unusual for most women to get off on sight of drop dead gorgeous man, the way a man will if her body is desirable to him ...women don't have a "bone" to get a bonner, it takes a mood, feelings and familiarity, and a sense of security for a woman to express her sensuality.

[metamorphosis]

I am assuming it goes both ways. It would be extemely uncomfortable to imagine sex as a deed that brings pleasure to men alone.

[BlackVelvet]

Yummy,

BV mentioned how she does not see a guy who catches her eye as physically wanting...and a mans attractiveness grows on a woman through personality observation..

It's unusual for most women to get off on sight of drop dead gorgeous man, the way a man will if her body is desirable to him ...women don't have a "bone" to get a bonner, it takes a mood, feelings and familiarity, and a sense of security for a woman to express her sensuality.

Yeah doesn't happen when just walking down the street but, but, when you're watching a show or a movie or you see a particular picture online or on an ad then sometimes you do get my goodness, if that man were here and all was halal tan aan ku dhigi laha




If you've never had that reaction I was going to post some ads and clips lakin no need to cause fitna. Either way though, every human being should be able to get to that level that YM was referring to, it's natural. What it takes to get them there is all relative.

[BlackVelvet]

BV since when did you come back .

A couple of days ago. How have you been?

[Murax]

Educational. Women/Men are certainly different then

[Foxy22]

my goodness, if that man were here and all was halal tan aan ku dhigi laha


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[BlackVelvet]

my goodness, if that man were here and all was halal tan aan ku dhigi laha


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Torchka igu qabo adiga, thank you

[Foxy22]

I know I loved it... The ataan ku qaban lahaa tan kugu dhigi lahaa feeling

[BlackVelvet]

You have someone to channel those feelings to, us single people iska gacan galne