Dumarka-Sexual desires in a marriage

Inaayah · Postby **Inaayah** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 3:55 pm

Guys

Jugjugwacwac · Postby **Jugjugwacwac** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 3:58 pm

Before I leave this thread, I wanna give a last piece of advice. Before u agree to marry someone, make sure you are attracted to them physically. Also, make sure that they don't have any problems that would cause issues in the bed such as erectile dysfunction,low libido etc. Why find out after the marriage when u can do so in a respectful manner before it?

I think a lot of the times the issue is the girls are marrying guys for stability and money and aren't really attracted to them, so it makes the sex suck. Don't put urself in that situation, marry a guy ur attracted to and has a working thingy down there, and honestly u should be good to go.

BVSNet · Postby **BVSNet** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:02 pm

You know there are a number of men who are offended by females exercising this right yet praise the whole proverbial fall on the sword from the woman. Taloow is that in itself a symptom of the problem. Surely a man should care and it should bother him if his wife's needs are not met. Very much so. A man who is willing to do his bit while knowing full well that his wife is taking part for you and not for her and that man is happy to carry on...

Uhm the only thing that would concern me is having people over. But that is non issue because Somali xeer dictates that you only have those type of meetings if both people are Tolka.

There is no issue if she is involved in her tribal issues it happens all the time, some of the biggest tribal activists I know are eedos married to shisheeye. In the Somali cultural context there is nothing wrong with that.

Nah tribal activists I couldn't deal with Ilaaha ileh. I couldn't even stomach a tribal activist from my own qabiil ku kale mashee

lifeisbloodyhard · Postby **lifeisbloodyhard** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:04 pm

Somalida sex life is dead arabta ka dama.
Speak for yourself. Mine one is gonna be good isA. I will make sure of it.
I like your spirit but I should of said most.

So what's your favorite color lingerie.

lifeisbloodyhard · Postby **lifeisbloodyhard** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:05 pm

Before I leave this thread, I wanna give a last piece of advice. Before u agree to marry someone, make sure you are attracted to them physically. Also, make sure that they don't have any problems that would cause issues in the bed such as erectile dysfunction,low libido etc. Why find out after the marriage when u can do so in a respectful manner before it?

I think a lot of the times the issue is the girls are marrying guys for stability and money and aren't really attracted to them, so it makes the sex suck. Don't put urself in that situation, marry a guy ur attracted to and has a working thingy down there, and honestly u should be good to go.

What about size though? That is my issue. How can you ask a guy how big his thing is? That's just awkward.

What if he has a micro penis?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Micropenis

Postby **MujahidAishah** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:06 pm

Guys

Innayah it's your faults asking a room full of sexuallyl frustrated skinnies about sex and divorce

Sauron · Postby **Sauron** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:09 pm

This is getting very interesting right now walee

lifeisbloodyhard · Postby **lifeisbloodyhard** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:11 pm

This is getting very interesting right now walee

Jugjugwacwac · Postby **Jugjugwacwac** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:16 pm

What about size though? That is my issue. How can you ask a guy how big his thing is? That's just awkward.

Unless he has a micro-penis (which is actually a condition), then you should be okay. I'm not an expert on sexuality, but a man whose wife finds him physically attractive, and isn't otherwise sick or suffering from erectile dysfunction, should be able to satisfy his wife with an average to below average thingy. Like, you have to understand, not everything can be perfect. What if u find a guy who looks like a male model, but he suffers from premature ejaculation? What if u find another guy who also looks good but he's on the smaller side? What if you find another guy who is on the bigger side of the spectrum and can last longer but he doesn't have a good looking face or maybe he's short? Just like you women have flaws men have flaws too, so a physically perfect male who is a sexual phenom is a rare specimen. You just gotta accept that and work with what you have as long as it's not too bad. Oh and make lots of dua that u get someone who you're compatible with in all areas, including this one.

Also, I think the pursuit of pleasure has become a central tenant in the West to the detriment of the pursuit of higher ideals, such as family, loyalty, selflessness and sacrifice, which I think in the end nourish the soul more than orgasms and decadent chocolate.

JSL3000 · Postby **JSL3000** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:16 pm

Micro wtf does that even exist anymore just get penis implant a dead dik better than no dik.

lifeisbloodyhard · Postby **lifeisbloodyhard** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:18 pm

What about size though? That is my issue. How can you ask a guy how big his thing is? That's just awkward.
Unless he has a micro-penis (which is actually a condition), then you should be okay. I'm not an expert on sexuality, but a man whose wife finds him physically attractive, and isn't otherwise sick or suffering from erectile dysfunction, should be able to satisfy his wife with an average to below average thingy. Like, you have to understand, not everything can be perfect. What if u find a guy who looks like a male model, but he suffers from premature ejaculation? What if u find another guy who also looks good but he's on the smaller side? What if you find another guy who is on the bigger side of the spectrum and can last longer but he doesn't have a good looking face or maybe he's short? Just like you women have flaws men have flaws too, so a physically perfect male who is a sexual phenom is a rare specimen. You just gotta accept that and work with what you have as long as it's not too bad. Oh and make lots of dua that u get someone who you're compatible with in all areas, including this one.

Also, I think the pursuit of pleasure has become a central tenant in the West to the detriment of the pursuit of higher ideals, such as family, loyalty, selflessness and sacrifice, which I think in the end nourish the soul more than orgasms and decadent chocolate.

Ahh ok. Makes sense.

lifeisbloodyhard · Postby **lifeisbloodyhard** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:19 pm

Micro wtf does that even exist anymore just get penis implant a dead dik better than no dik.

Hahahah let's not laugh. There might be someone with a micro penis here.

I'm sorry if you have a micro penis and you are reading this. I'm not a bad person.

Postby **SultanOrder** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:21 pm

Micro wtf does that even exist anymore just get penis implant a dead dik better than no dik.

Go to YouTube n look up Howard stern small penis competition. Some of them are so small it's negative inches

be warned tho, that shit is brutal.

JSL3000 · Postby **JSL3000** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:23 pm

Just do pre-marriage sex before you get married then divorced it's better you take a smaller sin than a bigger sin if women are that worry these days.

JSL3000 · Postby **JSL3000** » Sun Apr 17, 2016 4:26 pm

Micro wtf does that even exist anymore just get penis implant a dead dik better than no dik.
Go to YouTube n look up Howard stern small penis competition. Some of them are so small it's negative inches be warned tho, that shit is brutal.

I can't watch that stuff howard stern show nasty as hell he be having midgets and rock n roll crack whores.

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