ill be alright tonight.Kadarag
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thanks for your concern. 
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ill be alright tonight.Kadarag
Wax isbadala ma dareemaysa hada yacni ( caawa xaladu oke somahan)
thanks for your concern. 
if you want to be "normal" again you can do it!!
It's called obsessive love...I know its unhealthy...anyways was she a similar age? and easy with the word 'paedophile'...im an adult.. getting married loool...and what ..get divorced in a week haha..has she forgotten about him? or just moved on? ...and since i have effectively dropped out of college, i need to get a job. I can only do that once i've fixed up.ka darag,
here's the thing, believe it or not, i know what you're going through because a good friend of mine went through the same thing. either you continue living in misery or you start healing. the choice is yours. if you want to continue living in misery and like inflicting pain on yourself than it is no one's fault but your own. kamal may be an asshole and he's probably a pedophile as well, but he is not forcing you to be in love with him.. he is not forcing you to cut yourself.. he is not forcing you to even think about him... this is all your own doing. if you want to heal, then be serious about it and take the necessary steps to heal. first of all you need to cut off all contact with kamal and your backstabbing friend then you need to get yourself the necessary help ( anti-depressants). the only way you will hurt him emotionally is when he sees that you're happy, have life in order and have moved on. if you keep running after him like a little puppy all you're doing is making him feel like he has some power over you. like i said, the choice is yours! don't act like someone has control over your life when you are the one who is putting yourself through this pain. get yourself on some anti-depressants, turn to god, get back to school/work, and get married if you have to but please stop messing up your life for him. you are not the only person in the world to be wronged, tricked, used, or lied to by someone they thought they were in love with. like i said previously, i helped my friend get through something very similar to this.. it wasn't easy but she got through it and has moved on with her life. she got married a few years ago and is a proud mother of 2 now and is much happier than she has ever been.
btw, as much as you think you're in love with him, you are not. what you have is an attachment and an unhealthy one at that. love does not make you want to commit suicide.
I just wanted to see who u thought it was...obviously not gonna reply. Like I said, im not replying to guesses.KaD, why the no reply to my Pm?
Back? What if I never really had him ?Do you want him back?
Then you are mourning something that you never had. It's like crying about your 3rd arm being cut off.Back? What if I never really had him ?Do you want him back?
I just want to rewind the last year ......and its not as simple as you think, but anyways...never mind that.Then you are mourning something that you never had. It's like crying about your 3rd arm being cut off.Back? What if I never really had him ?Do you want him back?
Okay, ill try see a therapist...how old is she now?ka darag,
yes, she was around your age ( she was 17 at the time). anyway, it's unrealistic to think you will ever forget about someone who was once an important part of your life so no she has not forgotten about him, but the constant thoughts she used to have about him are gone. she told me she thinks about him maybe once every couple of months and it's only a passing thought. when she got the help that she needed, she finally let go of the emotional attachment that she had to him. a few months after she got married, we ran into him at the cinema and i thought she would break down seeing him with a bunch of girls but walaahi she surprised me when she said that she doesn't even know what she ever saw in him. he has tried to contact her many times since then but she has moved on and is happier than she has ever been.
like i said her situation was similar to yours. as much as you might hate seeing a therapist, that is the first step towards healing and you have to suck it up and do it. your only other option is to continue living and feeling like you are now.
Cos sometimes I have noone to talk to and I want an unbiased opinionKa Darag, Honestly though sis...I dont get why you keep trusting somalinet folks with ur personal problems. I mean I get coming here for advice (even though you dont take most of it on board) laakiin why do you keep divulging info and hope that it stays between you and the person you told? You've done it again and now you see folks spreading you're stuff through PM and there aint nothing you could do. You cant separate the trustworthy ones with the people that just want a bit of cyber gossip.... from the outside people seem genuine to you but really they're not. Iska ilaali....
...i don't really care...I only know a few ppl on here in real life and they know everything anyway, so why does it make a difference if strangers know about my shit?? To them, I am just another girl. Why is it not that simple? It's only ever as complicated as you make it you know.I just want to rewind the last year ......and its not as simple as you think, but anyways...never mind that.Then you are mourning something that you never had. It's like crying about your 3rd arm being cut off.
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