Kamal..........

[1_londoner]

So you dont mind a total stranger knowing all your business? Even though these strangers know you as 'just another girl' an probably dont lose sleep over your issues? And yet you want their unbiased opinion on your problems?

You want someone to talk to, I get that. But check out this 11 page topic walal....nearly every single person is telling you the same thing. The bloke is not worth it, ilaahey u ducay iyo deenta ha ka fogaanin....where else is there left to talk about?

[Complicated19]

So you dont mind a total stranger knowing all your business? Even though these strangers know you as 'just another girl' an probably dont lose sleep over your issues? And yet you want their unbiased opinion on your problems?

You want someone to talk to, I get that. But check out this 11 page topic walal....nearly every single person is telling you the same thing. The bloke is not worth it, ilaahey u ducay iyo deenta ha ka fogaanin....where else is there left to talk about?

Nothing.

[gemini_snake]

ka darag,

yes, she was around your age ( she was 17 at the time). anyway, it's unrealistic to think you will ever forget about someone who was once an important part of your life so no she has not forgotten about him, but the constant thoughts she used to have about him are gone. she told me she thinks about him maybe once every couple of months and it's only a passing thought. when she got the help that she needed, she finally let go of the emotional attachment that she had to him. a few months after she got married, we ran into him at the cinema and i thought she would break down seeing him with a bunch of girls but walaahi she surprised me when she said that she doesn't even know what she ever saw in him. he has tried to contact her many times since then but she has moved on and is happier than she has ever been.

like i said her situation was similar to yours. as much as you might hate seeing a therapist, that is the first step towards healing and you have to suck it up and do it. your only other option is to continue living and feeling like you are now.

Okay, ill try see a therapist...how old is she now?

she is 21. anyway, i hope you go through with it and see a therapist because they will help you deal with the constant uncontrollable thoughts of him and once those are gone, your attachment will start to fade as well. good luck with everything.

[Complicated19]

and Kamal, I dont think ur scum..I said it in the heat of the moment. Sorry. If I did, I wouldn't be wasting my time with you.


Anyways goodnight from Somaliland ppl


Ilahi khair ha na siiyo since most of you lot contributed positively to this thread


TC.

[SummerRain]

You need a Mother and a Father...I hope its not too late.