Hear Ye! Here Ye! Come One, Come All!

[Qumanyoo]

[quote]i dont even understand ur comment[/quote]

1stly - yaa ba kula hadlayay
2ndly - ma kids come befor ma husband, and den da whole me n ma husband bizniz..!

[military-mind]

i say ...............................................................

yeah........................................................

and.....................................

u get me................................................

thats how it is

[S-LANDS_FINEST]

KIDZ AT THA TABLE
ME N HUBBY WATCHIN BBCNEWS
SO BASICALLY AL THA SAME TYM

[quote="Abdi_westldn"]Naa bruv....if ur house hold is like dat den das just gaajo..my house we all eat nobody gets feed hambo..

When i get married why would my kids and wife eat after me wtf.....my kids eat first and me and my wife can eat together.

About ur question i wouldnt have a clue because i wasnt raised in a household like that nor have i ever been in one that does like that.[/quote]

miskiin!!

[military-mind]

naah naah ppl always bring da qaat in to every ting....

wha i say is do it the why u feel is right for u

no body is in the wrong and if da Kasband wana chew 24-7 and da wife will serve him his food first .. then good for them as long as there Happy

[Physicists]

[quote="Bint_Adan"][quote="Physicists"]I don't see anything wrong with that...plus thats only the older generation i think


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See i see alot wrong with it because doesn't Islam teach you to eat together as a family? husband, wife and children?[/quote]


Ye, most of the Somalis in the old generation were illiterate and didn't really know anything about the diin, the new generation are more educated and they know whats right and wrong..so this don't apply to younger generation.

[BaByGaL_8701]

Role as Mother

Apart from her role as a wife, the Muslim woman has a very important role as mother. The status and value attached to parents in the Muslim world is very high. The Qur'an says:

"Your Lord has decreed that you should worship nothing except Him, and (show) kindness to your parents, whether one or both of them attain old age (while they are) still with you, never say to them a word of contempt nor scold them. Address them in a generous fashion. And out of kindness, stay before them with humility and say: 'My Lord, show them mercy, just as they cared for me in my childhood' " (17:23-24).

Again Allah says:

"We have enjoined man to respect his parents; his mother bears him with fainting after fainting, while his weaning takes two years. Thank Me as well as your parents; towards Me lies the goal" (The Qur'an 31:14)

It is reported that a man came to the Prophet and asked:

"Messenger of Allah, who is the most deserving of good care from me?" The Prophet replied: "Your mother (which he repeated three times) then your father, then your nearest relatives in order".

In another hadith the Prophet has said: "Paradise lies at the feet of mothers". In other words Paradise awaits those who cherish and respect their mothers.

The Muslim mother has consequently a great feeling of security about the type of care and consideration she can expect from her children when she reaches old age. As the verse of the Qur'~ n quoted above indicates, thankfulness to parents is linked with thankfulness to Allah, and a failure in either of these respects is indeed a major failure in one's religious duties.

The principles of Islam made explicit in the Qur'an and hadith are belief and good conduct, and good conduct begins at home with one's closest relatives. A Westerner who has had close contact with a Muslim society cannot fail to be struck by the love and respect given to parents and the honour shown to old people in general, both men and women, as a direct application of these principles of Islam.