[quote="Ladie"]Lil Cutiee.. Thanks 4 Dat Siss
Very Interestinggg...
I fort falling in love in Islam was haraam??
Ladie_x[/quote]
You welcome sis, no baranbaro.

Falling in love is an emotion, it's something we can not control walal and it's something Allah has blessed with us, to love one another and care for eachother. It's how you go about it that could possibly LEAD to Haraam.. & My Allah protect us from any of that. Aameen. (Marriage is obviously the answer.. Looool)
It shows a weak Iman, and it could be posioneous and Shirk (which is one of the biggest sins if not the biggest)..SubxanaAllah! But I see what you are trying to say because--the only person we are meant to Love is Allah swt.
Think of it like this--Someone very wise told me

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Yes, We are meant to Love Allah swt the best we can by commiting ourselves to his orders soley in worship....When you are not obsessed with Allah, obey him, are truthful to him and yourself, insuring that you are continuously running away from haraam and to halal, aways seeking forgivness and Allah's pleasure, believing in the Qur'aan and the sunnah of the rusullah and trying to impliment that in your everyday actions!!-------SUBXANALLAH------You become Obsessed with other things, or example; another person, you spend too much time with them occupying yourself with them, fixing your day around them, when you should be fixing your time around prayer, care for them more than yourself and allah, work for them which is causing sin and instead of deeds, appricate them in a way that you are almost obeying thier every word as if they are a saint, like worshiping them...etc. It may not be something we are aware of but something the Shaydaan can easily manipulate. So we need to be careful. InshaAllah.
“He is with you (by His Knowledge) wherever you may be. And Allaah is the All-Seer of what you do.” (Al-Hadeed 57:4)
So Why then shouldn't we be more involved with our creater-- the All-Knowing, All-Seeing and be with him at all times in our thoughts and actions, instead of someone/guy/girl who may spare a thought for us '..every now and then'. Trust me, no one will ever care for us as much as Allah swt (the next closest person is your mother btw

)...So Alxamdulilah!!
Not only another person, but it could be said for other material things in this dunya, i.e MONEY!! Which is another big posionous factor in the Illness's of the Heart.
Perhaps I didn't explain it properly, but..InshaAllah you got my point.It's about getting your priorities right.
The Hadeeth shows anyone who puts his feelings aside and however strong they are puts Allah first ALWAYS.. MashaAllah TabarakAllah..