Marriage, in the 21st century

[Da_Triple_Threat]

LETS TALK ABOUT THE 21st CENTURY MARRIAGE WHY DOSE IT NOT WORK?




p.s.I'LL GIVE MY VIEW LATER STAGES ON THIS TOPIC

[MiSs_aaqli]

SECULARISATION,...THE DECLINE OF RELIGION WHICH IS TAKING PLACE IN THE WEST AND THOSE PEOPLE WHO MIGRATED FROM THE EAST BLINDLY FOLLOWING THE DECEPTION OF THE DUNIYA, THAT THE MUHRIKUN HAVE BEEN PLANNING FOR CENTURIES. THE SAME PEOPLE ALLAHS MESSENGER S.A.W WARNED US ABOUT ....YET WE FALL FOR THEIR WICKED WAYS EVEN IN THE SIMPLEST 'MARRIAGE', DOES IT EVEN EXIST ANYMORE? AND WHY?
...SUBHANALLAH....

IF YOU DNT KNOW THEN YOUR EITHER DEAF DUMB OR BLIND!

[SPLIF!MAN]

how can hdz expect to have a happy marriage
when in their youth their out looking for sex if-not a bit of feelage!

be real! it dnt work like that!
man like me has to really re-consider my point of life!

[miss_unique87]

It doesn't work because people are just getting married for the sake of being married nowadays. They don't know that theirs a whole lot of responsibilities behind it.

[*Anonymous*]

well in my opinion an increasing number of marriages are failing due to marriage not being taken as serious as it should....people seem to forget that marriage is half of our religion

our generation choose partners like we choose a apir of shoes.
also the fact that a lot of young people date their partners for years and years curses their marriage because it is haram.

there is a way we are guided to go about marriage...a lot of couples don't go about marriage the right way andif it end up failing then i'm not surprised

when people are married both men and women have duties to perform in islam...people once again don't follow this.

marriages are not followed in the correct way they are bound to fail...it's like baking a cake don't follow the instructions and you ruin the cake.

and aside from the whole religion a lot of couples don't know how to communicate

but insha'allah this will change

[SPLIF!MAN]

rascit!!!!!!!!!!!

this poster murked the topic!!!!!

[BaByGaL_8701]

[quote="*Anonymous*"]well in my opinion an increasing number of marriages are failing due to marriage not being taken as serious as it should....people seem to forget that marriage is half of our religion

our generation choose partners like we choose a apir of shoes.
also the fact that a lot of young people date their partners for years and years curses their marriage because it is haram.

there is a way we are guided to go about marriage...a lot of couples don't go about marriage the right way andif it end up failing then i'm not surprised

when people are married both men and women have duties to perform in islam...people once again don't follow this.

marriages are not followed in the correct way they are bound to fail...it's like baking a cake don't follow the instructions and you ruin the cake.

and aside from the whole religion a lot of couples don't know how to communicate

but insha'allah this will change[/quote]

sax :thumb: you took the words out of my keyboard,, people shud think twice before rushing to it and shud knw the her and his principles. Marriage is Big step walla nowdays thinks is easy, but like the anonymous package that comes with it shud be followed in right way but inshallah it will change for better..

[Qumanyoo]

they become westernised.. they lose deen, culture and identity... new grounds new ways is how a lot see it..

true say tho anonymous

[Habar Awal]

Marriage is the new "fashion trend" i personaly dont care wheather malis rush into marriage or not, for me it jus means more weddings to crash and cake to eat lol! i love me some wedding cake!

[*lady_ice_4u2nv*]

erm..obviously da marriage aint gonna work
from when dere only gettin married coz da chicks prolly pregnant!

[*Anonymous*]

[quote="*lady_ice_4u2nv*"]dere only gettin married coz da chicks prolly pregnant![/quote]

don't judge that's not for you to do and you never know it could happen to anyone so just pray for people that it happens to

[Abdi_westldn]

[quote="*lady_ice_4u2nv*"]erm..obviously da marriage aint gonna work
from when dere only gettin married coz da chicks prolly pregnant![/quote]

thats really stupid if it ever happened to me id never marry the gal, just support her financially.

[Ashlee]

[quote="*lady_ice_4u2nv*"]erm..obviously da marriage aint gonna work
from when dere only gettin married coz da chicks prolly pregnant![/quote]

so true. every other chick that gets married is like already pregnant.

[Advocatar]

lol,



almost all the wedding I have been to in the last 7 months, the brides have a healthy baby already, either they got too excited early or they maher happen way before the wedding celebration.

[_BuFF_GYAL_]

SO WHAT MASHALLAH PEOPle ARE GETTING MARRIED AND WHAT..ITS SOMETHING THAT THERE HAPPY WID AND AT LEAST IT KEEPS THEM AWAY FROM GOING DOWN THAT ROAD CALLED ZINNA.....INSHALLAH KULI KHAIR.....and i swear its a good thing..how do u knw the two people didnt plan and think about it carefully? go for it i say as long as the two people have deen, akhlaaq and money then there good to go! and its urged for muslims to get get married at a young age ( well they have to be mature enough is well) less temptation i see.....