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Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 5:41 pm
by Da_Triple_Threat
The way some Muslims criticize each other, you'd think they were talking to an Islam-basher instead of a fellow brother or sister. This type of ignorant behavior is a sure way to create anger, hurt and dissension. It is no route towards unity.
We must learn the Adab (etiquette) of criticism, whether it is towards individual Muslims or our leaders. Knowing and implementing this will not only help solve problems in a practical manner, but it will also lead to a greater sense of brother and sisterhood in the community.
If you feel that your criticism of someone in the past was rude or hurtful, please go back and apologize to them. Before you do that, pray for that brother or sister, since the Prophet has said that Dua increases love between people.
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 4:57 am
by xamari_gash
NEWBOI IM SORYY WILL U 4GIVE ME
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:01 am
by Xplosive_playa
Newboi im sorry for bullyin u.....
no hard feelins....rite
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:09 am
by Advocatar
newboi I swear I didnt mean it......
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:10 am
by xamari_gash
[quote="Xplosive_playa"]Newboi im sorry for bullyin u.....
no hard feelins....rite
[/quote]
IM SORRY 2 U TO
IF I EVER OFFENED U IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:13 am
by Xplosive_playa
[quote="xamari_gash"][quote="Xplosive_playa"]Newboi im sorry for bullyin u.....
no hard feelins....rite
[/quote]
IM SORRY 2 U TO
IF I EVER OFFENED U IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM
[/quote]
say it like u mean it......
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:15 am
by Ashlee
i guess ill have 2 stop.
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:15 am
by xamari_gash
I DO
CROSS MY HEART AND HOPE 2 LOOSE MY
INTERENT CONNECTION
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:19 am
by Xplosive_playa
[quote="xamari_gash"]I DO
CROSS MY HEART AND HOPE 2 LOOSE MY
INTERENT CONNECTION
[/quote]
that sounds sooooooooooooo wrong!!
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:20 am
by xamari_gash
[quote="Xplosive_playa"][quote="xamari_gash"]I DO
CROSS MY HEART AND HOPE 2 LOOSE MY
INTERENT CONNECTION
[/quote]
that sounds sooooooooooooo wrong!!
[/quote]
IN WAH WAY MY LOVE
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:23 am
by Xplosive_playa
first of all i aint ur LOVE!!..........
but only chrsitains say cross my heart!!
plz reframe from usin it...
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 6:11 am
by Ladie
oh im sorry for evryting ive said, and will say that will offend u... YES ... you
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 6:13 am
by Xplosive_playa
Whoever reads this....... im sincerely sorry if i HURT ur feelings in any form or way...plz find it in ur heart to forgive me...
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 6:29 am
by BaByGaL_8701
Okie sorry,, if I offended anyone plz give me Im only a human being wit feelings
Re: Learn to criticize without hurting
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 7:08 am
by xamari_gash
[quote="Xplosive_playa"]first of all i aint ur LOVE!!..........
but only chrsitains say cross my heart!!
plz reframe from usin it...
[/quote]
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