[quote="Madd_Scientist_"]I've had a lot of stick from people (yes my parents included) who don't understand why i'd rather have a career than sit at home and have 10 kids by the age of 25. I'm 24, and i know exactly what i want in life.... a nice house(which i'm saving for) a nice car(which i already have) and most importantly a career....
Why is that so bad? I don't want kids and to be honest it's definitely not something which is on my mind at the moment. How come somali people have the mentality that if you reach the age of say 25, you're past your sell by date so to speak? To any other nation a 25 year old woman has her whole life ahead of her.....
So tell me... what do you think about someone who may or may not want kids and is solemnly focused on her career? Would you ever marry someone like that? And is it so wrong to want to achieve something in your life?[/quote]
babygirl im all for careers and reach your goal! so do ya thang and always be good at what you do!
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there is a BIG, HUGE, MAJOR BUT-- and that is dont forget your religion which requires you to marry and re produce! -( if possible)
besides you dont want to wake up one day with regrets