Dillema of Somali Dating

[Realest_007]

Nowadays it has become problematic to date for Somali young people.

You cannot talk to a girl and get to know her in public, eventhough nothing harams happens between the two of you.

For girls this problem is huge, a good girl has to worry about her image/reputation as good girl and thus cannot date, talk or walk with guys that are not her family or guys her family knowes.

Some say, a guy needs to go to the parents and ask for their persmission, but as soon as he does this people will assume he wants to marry her. So if the answer is No...the road ends...if the answer of the parents is Yes, people will assume the marriage will follow soon enough lol....while your intention is just to get to know her before deciding on such a big question.

What can one do in this dilemma? Especially the ladies are in this big dillema.

[Oxy-]

There are ways in which a guy and a girl can get 2know each other and still remain good in the eyes of others.
I think its all about boundaries. Just make sure you dont step outta line!

[Realest_007]

enlighten us then

[military-mind]

loooooool@dating

[surrender]

Realest_007 if you are good guy and are looking for a good gril type. then act, and dress as a gentelman. girls dont run away, or turn away from mature guys. as in guys who look serious.and know what they want in life. and when you approach a girl, dont do the cheap chat up lines or try to be funny. she is a good girl after all. so just ask her out, and if she seems not interested. try to get your girl mate to ask her if she is interested in you. and take it from there.

[juisaay]

Nowadays it has become problematic to date for Somali young people.

You cannot talk to a girl and get to know her in public, eventhough nothing harams happens between the two of you.

For girls this problem is huge, a good girl has to worry about her image/reputation as good girl and thus cannot date, talk or walk with guys that are not her family or guys her family knowes.

Some say, a guy needs to go to the parents and ask for their persmission, but as soon as he does this people will assume he wants to marry her. So if the answer is No...the road ends...if the answer of the parents is Yes, people will assume the marriage will follow soon enough lol....while your intention is just to get to know her before deciding on such a big question.

What can one do in this dilemma? Especially the ladies are in this big dillema.

listen yea if u wanna get to the gal real quick yes... and made sure that your or the gal aint clocked by other people just simply take tha chick in 2 a luuq and phuck then duck .

enough said

[AhmedP]

listen yea if u wanna get to the gal real quick yes... and made sure that your or the gal aint clocked by other people just simply take tha chick in 2 a luuq and phuck then duck .

enough said

I SWEAR UR A CHICK THOUGH

[juisaay]

lol yea i am

[Newboy]

its the years of 2008, things are clear.so,please nigga dont get it twisted , if you want a date there are array plenty of xalimos who are willing to scape the madness of there famo and get down wit a nigga ......marriage?? just find a girls with a wifey material than follow the rules
which has already been laid out..if you know what am saying.

[somaliscarface]

simply follow the deen and daqan ways even though thats hard sometimes.

[Realest_007]

and what does the deen and dhaqan say mr?

care to enlighten us?

[Fck_NY_imfrom_london]

Nowadays it has become problematic to date for Somali young people.

You cannot talk to a girl and get to know her in public, eventhough nothing harams happens between the two of you.

For girls this problem is huge, a good girl has to worry about her image/reputation as good girl and thus cannot date, talk or walk with guys that are not her family or guys her family knowes.

Some say, a guy needs to go to the parents and ask for their persmission, but as soon as he does this people will assume he wants to marry her. So if the answer is No...the road ends...if the answer of the parents is Yes, people will assume the marriage will follow soon enough lol....while your intention is just to get to know her before deciding on such a big question.

What can one do in this dilemma? Especially the ladies are in this big dillema.

You stupid, stupid handicab ... naga amus nacala ****... wat r u 12?

Dillema gaga wasse ! act like a man do what you think is right! this aint fokin dear deidre

[FAH1223]

just isolate yourself from women, dont look their way, dont talk to them, dont even acknowlledge them

just wait till you wanna get married and have it arranged

[Realest_007]

Its obvious that the most of you dont even know or have experienced what i am talking about.

Believe me it is hard to be with a girl and develop feelings for her while all happens on the down low, off the radar of her parents. And no, I am not talking about haram things, just talking and getting to know each other without following the usual rituals of going to her parents and asking persmission etc.

[military-mind]

^adeer dont confuse ur self..
Theres no such thing as i wana go to the family and ask them if i can get to know the girl better and have feelings for her before i marry her..DONT YOU EVER try that, wallahi iyo bilahi some familys will chase u out wid a flyin ashtray
If u go to the family u can only have time to get to know character if u like then u like.. Love and all that bullxaar will come after da Respect.. U OVERSTAND adeero