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FELLOW MUSLIMS, HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY.

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FELLOW MUSLIMS, HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY.

Postby young@muslim » Sun Jan 01, 2006 8:42 am

Salam alekum, brothers and sisters.
In my other topic how to treat your husband, many people though that it only the woman the one who had to make the effort, this is not true here are ways to make your wife happy in Islam inshallah the brothers will be benefit from this.
Prophet Mohamed pbuh, `the best men are the ones that are best to they wifes`.

1. Beautiful Reception
After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you:
* begin with a good greeting.
* Start with Assalamau 'Aliaykum and a smile. Salam is a sunnah and a
du'aa for her as well.
* Shake her hand and leave bad news for later!

2. Sweet Speech and Enchanting Invitations
* Choose words that are positive and avoid negative ones.
* Give her your attention when you speak of she speaks.
* Speak with clarity and repeat words if necessary until she understands.
* Call her with the nice names that she likes, e.g. my sweet-heart,
honey, saaliha, etc.

3. Friendliness and Recreation
* Spend time talking together.
* Spread to her goods news.
* Remember your good memories together.

4. Games and Distractions
* Joking around & having a sense of humor.
* Playing and competing with each other in sports or whatever.
* Taking her to watch permissible (halal) types of entertainment.
* Avoiding prohibited (haram) things in your choices of entertainment.

5. Assistance in the Household
* Doing what you as an individual can/like to do that helps out,
especially if she is sick or tired.
* The most important thing is making it obvious that he appreciates her
hard work.

6. Financial Support
* The husband needs to be generous within his financial capabilities. He
should not be a miser with his money (nor wasteful).
* He gets rewards for all what he spends on her sustenance even for a
small piece of bread that he feeds her by his hand (hadeith).
* He is strongly encouraged to give to her before she asks him.

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Postby coverup » Sun Jan 01, 2006 8:59 am

Taking her to watch permissible (halal) types of entertainment.
* Avoiding prohibited (haram) things in your choices of entertainment.

like what, do you been bingo and stuff like that

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Postby BARIIS&BASTOO_BOY » Sun Jan 01, 2006 9:00 am

I Provide all of these conditions for you Coverup even thought Number 6 is a bit hard but i wil try my best Wink

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Postby young@muslim » Sun Jan 01, 2006 9:03 am

Coverup sister i think it means things such as music concerts.


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