Face or Phone

[DisplacedDiraac]

Lets just say you've been seeing someone for a long time, and your both into each other like mad. At the start you really didn't want to get yourself involved with this person because of their rep and where they from and mostly because you don't like getting yourself involved with people. But when you finally gave in, you was glad you gave in because everything makes sense with this particular person, for example he's like your soul mate (don't care if you don't believe in that). Anywho things start to get serious and he phones you like twice a day, in the morning to say good morning to you and at night to say goodnight. When I say serious I mean serious like a marriage thing, he's even prepared to ask your father for your hand, but there's only one little problem. This thing is really big and you know you've got to tell him about it before you get married, because you have to clear the air with this person, because you can't start a relationship with this person were there are secrets.


Would you tell him/her this thing over the phone because?

• Its easier
• Takes less courage
• You could easily put the phone down on them, if you get nerves or embarrassed
• Yet again they could put the phone down on you because of the shock
• you won't be able to see their face expression, which could be a plus or not
• They might have their bredrins around and they might over hear your private conversation
• He might put you on loud speaker (which I doubt) but you never know
• There might be a long short pause, but its okay because your not there

OR would you tell him/her this thing face to face?

• Its easier to make your statement
• You could make yourself cry lol
• He'll be able to see the emotions on your face
• You'll be able to see the emotions on his face
• You'd be able to tell him in private
• But your get embarrassed because its face to face
• It'll be a lot harder to tell him the thing face to face
• There might be a long silence pause after you've told him what you wanted to tell him, which isn't a good thing


Which way would you prefer someone to tell you something important?

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[ Not the owner ]

[dynamyte.]

As its a serious ting..n u was close to da person defintely face to face....personally i'd hate to b told on da phone...n i guess u wud to...so treat ppl hw u wanna b treated..

[Qumanyoo]

depending wat the situation is and if u made a mutual agreement not to bring it up again.. then u'z should stick to that...
spose it depends on the gal n the guy...
keep it civilised i say .. no point bringing up da past

[REPPIN_SHANKVILLE]

fone talks r loooooooooong

st8 up face 2 face

[Newboy]

FUCK YOU ALLL .. NIGGA NEVER GET CAUGHT IN THE MIX .... IF YOU KNOW WHAT IM SAYING.

[military-mind]

what do u mean shid like wha that u cant tell him???

that u circumcised and u cant feel shid

[Qumanyoo]

^^

[Gang Green's Social Life]

i didnt read one word walahi

about, coming wid bullet points and shyt

slap urself

[Newboy]

[quote="Gang Green's Social Life"]i didnt read one word walahi

about, coming wid bullet points and shyt

slap urself[/quote]


THEY AINT SERIOUS MATE..

[DisplacedDiraac]

[quote="military-mind"]what do u mean shid like wha that u cant tell him???

that u circumcised and u cant feel shid [/quote]


No its not that

Qumanyoo - i could be quiet and not tell him, but the thing is i want to tell him , i can't be quiet about it


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[ Not the owner ]

[military-mind]

tell me dee

[DisplacedDiraac]

how


about

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo

You might be one of his bredrins, or a family member


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[ Not the owner ]

[SLIM-THUG]

[military-mind]

[quote="WestLdnShawty"]:lol:

how


about

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo

You might be one of his bredrins, or a family member


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[ Not the owner ][/quote]

i might be him

[DisplacedDiraac]

nah darling your not him, my man isn't waste