Can men find a wife whom they can control?

[black velvet]

BV I think that this is a reaction to today's society, where today's women do not need many for anything other than having kids and some don't even use them when they can go to a sperm bank.

God put man in charge of women because he is able to bring income, leadership, and stability to the family, but now women have almost equal input into that area so the area's man is in dominance has been withered slowly and deliberately. Im not saying that women before did not work nor did not bring income but not in the way its done today, so what are we left with what power do we hold over women to submit to our leadership.... nothing... she can leave raise her children on welfare, work and get free daycare...

so what does this lead to- an insecurity that drives men into the extreme of finding the qualities they find attractive in women i.e. innocence, youth, and a dependency to them that they desire.. in short... younger and younger women.. so the truth is ..... INDEPENDENT WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE AND ITS NOT CUZ WE ARE INSECURE BUT IT LEADS TO AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Very good analysis PO, couldn't have said it better myself. I have to disagree with the last statement though; it is because of insecurity. There is nothing wrong that because such a female/being with such a female can be intimidating. A relationship like that can only survive if both parties are down to earth and balanced.

[black velvet]

AW tryna pimp SDM, SDM defending himself all the way to the wrong path, Surrender fueling the flames. Waryada xishood

[S-D-M]

Surrender,

What is wrong with SDM ? He is a wealthy Somali man who lives in a posh neighborhood, has a good job, owns a nice mansion and drives an Audi A-8.

i swear he mentioned before that he was a taxi driver, or am i totally mistaken him with another snatter?

You are not mistaken. I'm indeed a Taxi driver, but what does it have to do with the topic? And why are you discriminating the hard working people like me (taxi drivers) who are responsible of making the world economic to move forward. We give ride to CEO, Bankers, Engineers, Doctors, etc. We are the movers. We should have our own monument in DC or London.

[surrender]

AW tryna pimp SDM, SDM defending himself all the way to the wrong path, Surrender fueling the flames. Waryada xishood

girl what you smoking?!

[S-D-M]

AW tryna pimp SDM, SDM defending himself all the way to the wrong path, Surrender fueling the flames. Waryada xishood

No pimping sis. Just chating.

[black velvet]

Some men seem to be of the opinion that marrying a younger girl will mean they can control her. Yes of course, if her brain is not developed enough for her to use her own judgement she would be more susceptible to influence. In this case you controlling her to suit your own selfish needs is child abuse because that is what she is, a child.

Ignoring the child abusers, how likely is it for a man to be able to "control" his wife? Especially today with most women being able to provide for themselves?

elder status = respect and more control of the situation over said younger status

you like math, its a simple equation

Horta thats not an equation, secondly practise what you preach...in which case respect

[surrender]

Surrender,

What is wrong with SDM ? He is a wealthy Somali man who lives in a posh neighborhood, has a good job, owns a nice mansion and drives an Audi A-8.

i swear he mentioned before that he was a taxi driver, or am i totally mistaken him with another snatter?

You are not mistaken. I'm indeed a Taxi driver, but what does it have to do with the topic? And why are you discriminating the hard working people like me (taxi drivers) who are responsible of making the world economic to move forward. We give ride to CEO, Bankers, Engineers, Doctors, etc. We are the movers. We should have our own monument in DC or London.

lool@We give ride to CEO, Bankers, Engineers, Doctors, etc. haye waa sidaas. is got nothin to do with the thread btw. is response to abdiwahab's xayaysiis on you, thats all. and anyways i got nothing against taxi drivers. hard working indeed.

[black velvet]

Hmpht! hadane hmpht! Look at yall playing the innocent card

[AbdiWahab252]

Surrender,

SDM is quite the catch, I suggest you stop the Kibir (something not understood by us Rer Gedo people) and be nice to Haji Suleyman Dhagoweyne Muxudiin (SDM)

Black Velvet,

Kama una taka ku ingilia biashara, sawa sawa

[kambuli]

Why would anyone wants to control someone?

If the idea of controlling your partner is in your head from the very beginning..then you are lost wallee...Share life..share ideas..trust each other and voilaaaaaaa

[HELWAA]

BV

A man cant even control his own body let alone a whole person.They think they have control laakin iyaga ayaa la maamula...masaakin.

[SummerRain]

I can only speak for myself, and I was told i'm generally an individual that is difficult to control.

[AbdiWahab252]

I can only speak for myself, and I was told i'm generally an individual that is difficult to control.

Ismahan,

That is normal for a Gelinsoorite especially with the numerous soft Faraxs nowdays.

[zulaika]

BV

A man cant even control his own body let alone a whole person.They think they have control laakin iyaga ayaa la maamula...masaakin.

helwaa,

there can't be 2 leaders in the home..one person must follow. are u a follower?

[HELWAA]

BV

A man cant even control his own body let alone a whole person.They think they have control laakin iyaga ayaa la maamula...masaakin.

helwaa,

there can't be 2 leaders in the home..one person must follow. are u a follower?

A follower? bisinka...never been one huuno and never will