Cut off or woman up & face it...

[DisplacedDiraac]

If a 'sort of close friend' hid something from you *lets just say your friendship was basically based on lies, on her side * and you found 'this thing out' from a third person who you totally trust *in other words, they aint lieing!*
How would you deal with the situation?.. Or would you not even bother dealing with it at all cos you hate drama *like me* or simply because she aint worth it.

Would you cut the so called friend off straight away by ignoring her phone calls etc *& if you ever bump into her in the streets by totally ignoring her* or would you confront her and deal with the nacaasnimo she comes up with..

[sexy-kitten]

If it has something to do with you, then yea... Talk to her about it.

If its about her(like, she's a slut and she's been hiding it from you,) then iska dhaaf. She prolly doesn't want you to judge her lmao. I had friends like that!

[1-Londoner]

Im not much of a confrontational person so I would probably just ignore her.

Girls can be bitchy sometimes, even if you're really good mates. Thats why I only have 1 "proper" friend....all the rest are just acquaintances and thus I dont get too close.

[HELWAA]

If you trust the person who told you i would ignored her, she is not worth it.

[BlackVelvet]

Depends what she was hiding. Like Sexy said, if it's about her life then whatever innit

[XaliimoFarax]

Girls can be bitchy sometimes, even if you're really good mates. Thats why I only have 1 "proper" friend....all the rest are just acquaintances and thus I dont get too close.

This is why I stick with family no need for 'friends'. Mashallah if you are like the average somali family you must have dozens of cousins your own age and hence they become ur friend

No need for drama

[DisplacedDiraac]

Sexy K & Bv - It sort of involves me.. Since she tried her best to hide it from me for soo long & it seems like everyone knew but me.. Which makes me feel like a fool *a little*..

Londoner - Im like that... I hate unnecessary drama and bitchyness I love the quiet life too much.. And amba I only have two real friends.. I have no time for nacaasnimo, I suppose that's why I've just cut her off rather than dealt with it..

Helwa - I trust the person who told me with my life Plus someone else *who was involved* confirmed it for me!

Thanks for the replies everyone..

[Murax]

Woman are so fake. They can hate each other and smile and yap it up with each other as if they're best friends.

[DisplacedDiraac]

^Waa ruun, way tooo many females are like that.. I really hate that!
If I dont like someone I cant hide it.. I honestly cant stand sly people uff

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

Personally, I would cut her off, by ignoring her, she'll get the message sooner or later. I'm busy should be your favourite word when cutting people off, and not contacting them at ALL.

[HELWAA]

Personally, I would cut her off, by ignoring her, she'll get the message sooner or later. I'm busy should be your favourite word when cutting people off, and not contacting them at ALL.

And not answer their calls, it always do the trick hadaanu qofku slow aheen.

I hate fake friends

[wastegal]

If a 'sort of close friend' hid something from you *lets just say your friendship was basically based on lies, on her side * and you found 'this thing out' from a third person who you totally trust *in other words, they aint lieing!*
How would you deal with the situation?.. Or would you not even bother dealing with it at all cos you hate drama *like me* or simply because she aint worth it.

Would you cut the so called friend off straight away by ignoring her phone calls etc *& if you ever bump into her in the streets by totally ignoring her* or would you confront her and deal with the nacaasnimo she comes up with..

I greatly appreciated this topic. I too is going through a minor mishap of friends and betrayal.