Somali Males & Virginity

[Alphanumeric]

This topic has been abused far to many times and it's always started by those who could't keep their legs closed.
I truly believe if you've been God fearing person you will end up with the same person.Ilaahy waa caadil khiyaamadana ma jecla.
Once you're ready Alpha just give ur mom the green light and pray salaatul istaakhira.And leave the rest to Allah swt.
Hadaad wax yalahan isku wareersid dhiig kar baad isku ridi aakhirka.Just focus on ur deen and cibaadaha and the rest will come along.
Life is simple no need to make it harder.

You didn't answer any of my questions.

i agree with the part values and morals and principles can change what ever the state of mind or the core believe has to change first in order one changes his or her principles first.

there's times i evaluate myself i found i could comprise some of my principles and actually found excuse why! cause different people like saying: im harsh on this person cause i never thought they could do this and that, or they now better but other hand. this person, no expectations on them!!

I've found that I can't compromise. I'm either all in, or don't with it at all. There are some principles I've mine that I've abandoned over the years. Some other's that I've picked up.

Horta how many of you would even ask that Q? ma ku dhacdaan ba ugu horaysa?

I would.

[sexy-kitten]

Virginity is not the answer. Say YES to sex, and NO to abstinence. A fuck a day keeps the doctor away!

[Hyperactive]

if i was abundant and adopt other that wouldnt worry me. but when i compromise what i still think is right but compromise and found excuse for it when that suits me. that scares me. and ask myself what made me compromise in this particular situation. cause peer pressure, to fit in ...etc.

[Alphanumeric]

if i was abundant and adopt other that wouldnt worry me. but when i compromise what i still think is right but compromise and found excuse for it when that suits me. that scares me. and ask myself what made me compromise in this particular situation. cause peer pressure, to fit in ...etc.

There will always be compromise. If you want to implement the deen in your personal life, or implement your own principles, you will run into roadblocks sooner, rather than later. Anyone who says they don't compromise either hasn't tried implementing the deen entirely, or they're just bullshitting.

[Protagonist]

Virginity is not the answer. Say YES to sex, and NO to abstinence. A fuck a day keeps the doctor away!

[Hyperactive]

i understand that but the differences are, what kind of things and how serious issues one compromises!! some people can do things and never feel guilty and some just live in guilt for so long.lol my dad say: guilt is most useless emotions out there and no need for it. correct it, learn from it and move on!

im king of guilt. even coughing in the mosque i feel guilt of it and feel i bothered people.lol

[Alphanumeric]

I can relate.

[Colonel]

A wise man once said:

"If a key opens lots of locks, then it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then that's a pretty s**tty lock"

Apply this and you'll understand why female virginity is sought after.

A wise man indeed .

I must salute you for this great contribution which is, in itself, enough to end this thread.

Horto maxa laga dheefa a virgin? apart from the diin I dont see any difference

It's a woman's honour, I'm truly worried about you young girls if you can't even work that out.

Non virgin = prostitute
Virgin = pure indeed

Why do you think even the dirtiest cadaans use terms such as sl*ts? Even they know the value of a virgin girl.

[Aasli]

^^^ I thought this topic was about male Virginty? Why do guys feel the need to switch it?

[Shirib]

Horto maxa laga dheefa a virgin? apart from the diin I dont see any difference

I think you answered it yourself, it's because of diin.

[greenday]

Horto maxa laga dheefa a virgin? apart from the diin I dont see any difference

I think you answered it yourself, it's because of diin.

These people are not arguing from that point, they have other reasons which I dont think are valid.

[SultanOrder]

Horto maxa laga dheefa a virgin? apart from the diin I dont see any difference

I think you answered it yourself, it's because of diin.

all men have prefered virgins over non regardless of their religion.

[Alphanumeric]

Horto maxa laga dheefa a virgin? apart from the diin I dont see any difference

I think you answered it yourself, it's because of diin.

These people are not arguing from that point, they have other reasons which I dont think are valid.

Which people? And what reasons?


This isn't about gender. Not sure why that's being raised.

[Shirib]

greenday,

it stems from religion



PO,

not sure if I quite buy that. I don't think majority of gaalada in Seattle carry to hold on to their virginity or if their partner is one

[metamorphosis]

Horto maxa laga dheefa a virgin? apart from the diin I dont see any difference

I think you answered it yourself, it's because of diin.

Its not just diin. Chastity is important because practicing promiscuity is bad In so many ways.
1.,there are Health risks
2. sex becomes usless. It wont have aby value because you are suppose to care for the person you do it with. And if you do it with whoever you want, then you are no different from animals.
3.diin like you said.