want to divorce my pregnant wife

[Saraxnow]

Sounds a lot like a case I know of. First pregnancy she changed and got worse after the 2nd.They divorced then she turned normal and apologised.No post-natal depression at all.Turns out she was insecure that he would leave and just jealous.

[Cunaaye25]

waan ka xumahey sxb wixii kugu dhacey......my advise is saxiib give her a taste of her own medicine...

BIG BIG BIG mistake never and ever apologise thinking you will get sex and food in return, secondly you need to change your whole attitude........ waa inaad u naqantid sidii odaay yaashi hore nolaa 1800 1900 up to 1960. be cold cold hearted...thirdly you don't need to ask her for your right ....the rights of the husband upon his wife for instance sex and food in the table when you get home.....if she doesn't do it......smack her hard sxb ......

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[DonCorleone]

I am married with 3 children, even though I do not see my daughter as often I would like but I have 2 step son. My wife is the best, she is Somali after all, before that I was with Cadaan bitch .



What I would suggest is that you dominate her sexually, let her have the whip during day, markaa adi waxaa tahey Clark Kent, if she scream and do balaayo do not say shooq, just keep quiet. When night come, you become Superman. That is when you handle business. Then after dominating her almost every night, you will move on to dominate her on the day. You ignore when she act like she right, give her minimal space, be friendly when she act the way you want her to act but as soon as she become qoomayo, you become ignoring and a little hostile attitude. Eventually she will become good wife. If my suggestion do not work I say these because I am your Somali brother, leave her but be there for your children.

You married an adaan lady



LOOOOOL WHY?????????///

[QaaliDumar]

Alla maxaa tallo la soo jeedshay.

waan ka xumahey sxb wixii kugu dhacey......my advise is saxiib give her a taste of her own medicine...

BIG BIG BIG mistake never and ever apologise thinking you will get sex and food in return, secondly is you need to change your whole attitude waa inaad u naqantid sidii odaayshaynii waagi hore 1800 1900 up to 1960. be cold cold hearted...and you don't need to ask her for you right ....The rights of the husband upon his wife for instance sex and food in the table when you get home.....if she doesn't do it......smack her hard ......

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Kan sidaan u hadlaya yaa ogaada tiisa wuu u guurguurtaa.

[DonCorleone]

waan ka xumahey sxb wixii kugu dhacey......my advise is saxiib give her a taste of her own medicine...

BIG BIG BIG mistake never and ever apologise thinking you will get sex and food in return, secondly you need to change your whole attitude........ waa inaad u naqantid sidii odaay yaashi hore nolaa 1800 1900 up to 1960. be cold cold hearted...thirdly you don't need to ask her for your right ....the rights of the husband upon his wife for instance sex and food in the table when you get home.....if she doesn't do it......smack her hard sxb ......

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I don't think that's a good idea beating a pregnant lady


they should talk to eachother and sort it out

or else the husband should go to the girls mom and plead his case nicely because that is the last straw.

[Cunaaye25]

Alla maxaa tallo la soo jeedshay.

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Kan sidaan u hadlaya yaa ogaada tiisa wuu u guurguurtaa.[/quote]

war maheysid raggaan meesha lagu bahdiley ma wxaad rabtaa iney saas ku wadaan .... maybe adigaa ka faa'ideystey this system .......anigu xaasley ayaan ahey runtii wuxuu sheegayo na waan arkey...hadii aan kuu waramo xaalada waa ok.

odaayashii hore sidey u dhaqmi jireen ayaan u dhaqmaa iyo tan hada cusub reer galbeedka ay wadaan ayaan isksu dhex qasey= waxaa soo baxdey System oo sun ah.

adigu hadaad saas yaalilaheed ka waran bal ?. miyaa lagu qabaa bal kow?

I'm tired of ciyaal badan aan arkey complaining she doesn't cook,no sex, she is rude,she is blaa blaa .......runta ayaan u sheegaa odaayshii hore sidey u naqmi jireen u naqma. ama calaalka naga daaya

[Cunaaye25]

waan ka xumahey sxb wixii kugu dhacey......my advise is saxiib give her a taste of her own medicine...


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I don't think that's a good idea beating a pregnant lady


they should talk to eachother and sort it out

or else the husband should go to the girls mom and plead his case nicely because that is the last straw.

beating and smacking are two different things..........naag uur qabto mala taabto waalaga cararaa lakiin markey dhasho hadey soo waantoobi waydo....markaa ayaa lagu bilaabayaa

[barbarossa]

waan ka xumahey sxb wixii kugu dhacey......my advise is saxiib give her a taste of her own medicine...

BIG BIG BIG mistake never and ever apologise thinking you will get sex and food in return, secondly you need to change your whole attitude........ waa inaad u naqantid sidii odaay yaashi hore nolaa 1800 1900 up to 1960. be cold cold hearted...thirdly you don't need to ask her for your right ....the rights of the husband upon his wife for instance sex and food in the table when you get home.....if she doesn't do it......smack her hard sxb ......

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I don't think that's a good idea beating a pregnant lady


they should talk to eachother and sort it out



or else the husband should go to the girls mom and plead his case nicely because that is the last straw.[/quote



Don, pregnant or not, no man should put his on a woman, period.

[QaaliDumar]

Alla maxaa tallo la soo jeedshay.

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Kan sidaan u hadlaya yaa ogaada tiisa wuu u guurguurtaa.

war maysid raggaan meesha lagu bahdiley ayaan ka naxey runtii..anigu xaasley ayaan ahey runtii wuxuu sheegayo na waan arkey...hada hadii aan kuu waramo xaalada waa ok.
odaayashii hore sidey u naqmi jireen ayaan u naqmaa iyo tan hada cusub ayaan iskunex qasey....

adigu hadaad saas yaalilaheed ka waran?. miyaa lagu qabaa bal kow?

I'm tired of ciyaal badan aan arkey complaining she doesn't cook,no sex, she is rude,she is blaa blaa .......runta ayaan u sheegaa odaayshii hore sidey u naqmi jireen u naqma. ama calaalka naga daaya[/quote]


Walaal aan horta ku su'aale "u naqma" ma u dhaqamaad ugala jeedaa, if so u "naqma" xagee kala timid mise adigaa sida u carab la'?

Haa walaal, xaas baan ahay mana aaminsani in hadda loo dhaqmo sidi odayaashi hore u dhaqmi jireen.


Wax laga daalo weyaan ama inay reerahooda dhaqdaan ama calaacalka inaga daayaan wax u dhexeeya majiraan.

[Somaliman50]

Adoo nin ah, mawaxaad leedahay xaaskayga halayga qabto

If she is pregnant and with a child already, then brother she needs you more than you need her. Put your leg down and no more Mr nice guy. Isha ku gub, hadal kulul ku dheh, dhowr habeen u goy etc, ayadaa ku tebi doonta.

[Twist]

Nah, I'll pass to say my 2 cents about this one.

[Cunaaye25]

Alla maxaa tallo la soo jeedshay.

Walaal aan horta ku su'aale "u naqma" ma u dhaqamaad ugala jeedaa, if so u "naqma" xagee kala timid mise adigaa sida u carab la'?

Haa walaal, xaas baan ahay mana aaminsani in hadda loo dhaqmo sidi odayaashi hore u dhaqmi jireen.


Wax laga daalo weyaan ama inay reerahooda dhaqdaan ama calaacalka inaga daayaan wax u dhexeeya majiraan.

walaal carab keygu waa ok......naqma= waxaan ugala jeedey "dhaqma" iga raali ahoow.

adigu maxaa ra'yigaa u dhiiban waydey...qof walba ra'yigiisa dhiibta waad kula qabsatey......wax talo ah miyaad haysaa?

[farhaad]

Dear Brother
Divorce as a last option:

Although divorce being allowed in Islam is a sign of the lenience and practical nature of the Islamic legal system, keeping the unity of the family is considered a priority in Islam. For this reason, divorce is always a last choice, after exhausting all possible means of reconciliation. For example, Allah addresses men asking them to try hard to keep the marriage, even if they dislike their wives: ... live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and God brings about through it a great deal of good.
Surah 4 Verse 19

Also the following verse is addressed to the family or the society for the same purpose of rescuing this bond, which God did not make easy to break:
If ye fear a breach between them twain, appoint (two) arbiters, one from his family, and the other from hers; if they wish for peace, God will cause their reconciliation: For God hath full knowledge, and is acquainted with all things.
Surah 4 Verse 35

But, if after exhausting all methods of reconciliation, the hatred between the husband and wife is still greater than tolerance, and then divorce becomes inevitable. Here comes the genius of the Islamic law, which holds practical, rather than unrealistic approaches, towards real situations. The ultimate aims of marriage, as well as any other aspect of human life, are to achieve happiness and virtue. So, when people are denied their right to end an unhappy marriage, these two aims are seriously violated. This is, as the couple will live in suffering, which may lead them to marital infidelity. Thus divorce in this case - if weighed up to the disaster of family disintegration - will be less disastrous.

[QaaliDumar]

Maxaan ra'yigayga dhibtaa "I want to divorce my pregnant wife" ma wax lagu hadlaa?

Waa qof uur leh oo inuu u dhulqaatuu ku khasbanyahay. Naagtii wanaag loo muujiyo si kasta ey u qalafsantahay wey dabcaysaa, mindhaa uma afmacaaneeyo oo intaa wuu la tirsadaa. Yaa inaga og.

[Navy9]

I would have said when she is on her abuse session, get her taped and have it as an evidence that she is really a bad person and let her know that you have it but I am not sure how she will react to that, she probably will never trust you and the situation might get out of hand or she might back off...or maybe you just have it as an evidence and use it when and if you decide to leave her.


I feel sorry for anyone who has to endure her/his partner's abuse.