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Have you ever heard of a good Somali man? I am that good Somali man you have heard of or read in books. A loving, trustworthy, kind and generous. We have one problem though. We give our soul and heart and if we are betrayed, It takes us too long to recover from the betrayal. We trust once and if we are screwed up, We never trust again. We get scared of being betrayed or hurt again. So we do not move on for a long time.i wont pretend i know how you feel or tell you what to do. Allah ko gargaaro.
You don't move on from sweet memories. It leaves a mark in your heart. You move on from bad relationships. You can pretend to move on but it will only take you to see a place you visited with her or her old friend or relative. Boom, the memories come back like it happened yesterday. Do you think I like to hold on to the memories of a woman who is married to another man? Maya. I just can't help it.Moveon.org
You don't move on from sweet memories. It leaves a mark in your heart. You move on from bad relationships. You can pretend to move on but it will only take you to see a place you visited with her or her old friend or relative. Boom, the memories come back like it happened yesterday. Do you think I like to hold on to the memories of a woman who is married to another man? Maya. I just can't help it.Moveon.org
Cigaal,Imagine if sumu had children with his ex and he has to deal with her, talk to her and see her! He might have committed suicide I know isnt easy but you have move on at some point and dwelling on the past won't help you move on.
I don't think I miss her. But that is my Anniversary for my old life. She didn't go to those places alone. I was with her. Its like Childhood memories.Sounds like you miss her. Revisiting all the places and things you shared. Maybe you should try getting her back; if she has not moved on with someone else.
Ka wax ka daran they have kids and she gets remarriedImagine if sumu had children with his ex and he has to deal with her, talk to her and see her! He might have committed suicide I know isnt easy but you have move on at some point and dwelling on the past won't help you move on.
She's married with kids? Huuno move on, you are simply torturing yourself. I think you are the first person to ever have a breakup anniversary.I don't think I miss her. But that is my Anniversary for my old life. She didn't go to those places alone. I was with her. Its like Childhood memories.Sounds like you miss her. Revisiting all the places and things you shared. Maybe you should try getting her back; if she has not moved on with someone else.
And Yes, She moved on. She has husband and babies. That is why I am angry because she told me she will be with me forever. She shouldn't have said that if she wasn't sure she will do that. That is how Somali girls do to guys who are super nice and take their words as it comes to them
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