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I can't convince my mom, because every time she tries setting me up, it's a fail! She pins it on me, and makes it sound as though am not ready to settle, or am scared to shukaansi a chick hence why they all end up fail at it's infancy stage.Who's that 'her' you dont wish to upset ? If it is the lady and you still happen to love her,then go for her and smash the chick in a halal way .If not, convince your mom how you are done with that particular lady.Pretty simple .
Well, I've already done that and I respected her honesty then. I just said OK I will talk to her to avoid upsetting mum who is being kawaalad by the woman who even suggested to play match maker again lol.You should forget about it, and move on. It is not going anywhere.
.. try it again, see if she is interested this time. You never know when that clock start ticking women tend to be more openmindedI can't convince my mom, because every time she tries setting me up, it's a fail! She pins it on me, and makes it sound as though am not ready to settle, or am scared to shukaansi a chick hence why they all end up fail at it's infancy stage.Who's that 'her' you dont wish to upset ? If it is the lady and you still happen to love her,then go for her and smash the chick in a halal way .If not, convince your mom how you are done with that particular lady.Pretty simple .
Bingo waad fahantay. She is not old but I think she is getting pressure from her family it's best she doesn't delay further marriage. It's a shame because gabar tolka waye they want their daughter for tolka. She had rejected me back then for my looks, am afraid my looks haven't changed hahaha so I don't know how it will work. Am annoyed at this islaan who talked into her to reconsider me and now I got my mum on my case saying waa duqowday naga guurso kkkkkkkkk.. try it again, see if she is interested this time. You never know when that clock start ticking women tend to be more openmindedI can't convince my mom, because every time she tries setting me up, it's a fail! She pins it on me, and makes it sound as though am not ready to settle, or am scared to shukaansi a chick hence why they all end up fail at it's infancy stage.Who's that 'her' you dont wish to upset ? If it is the lady and you still happen to love her,then go for her and smash the chick in a halal way .If not, convince your mom how you are done with that particular lady.Pretty simple .
She had rejected me back then for my looks,
Taas dhiib maleh to be honest qofba dooq buu leeyahay. I was fine with it. She didn't flat out say it like that but I think her excuse was am a bit young back then.She had rejected me back then for my looks,
Naag kugu nacday ilaahy sidu ku abuuray rajo ma leh, ee hooyada runta oo sheeg.
May Allah bless you with a Good wife.
What makes things complicated is when you have ur mom and her friend who are dead set on speeding things like in a blink. So take it from me don't allow your parents to bring someone for you. Am at the stage where I am momentarily happy not trying to woo xaalimo altogether. I don't want marriage, atleast not this year. And being put off by the mounting pressure.You should never marry a person you don't want at the end you have to live with her. Tell your mother honestly you dont want this woman and marry when you ready you don't have biological clock right your a man. If your not 40. You have still time to make baby's.
And. Kadaba carartid ciyaal
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