First time dating an older female....help!!!

Dj_Clue1 · Post by **Dj_Clue1** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 2:07 am

Hi,

I'm new to the forum and I am glad that I randomly found this site because I'm glad to see that I am not the only young male dating an older female. I had always been put off by older female because I was always told that they were out to take advantage of young boys/men. I'm a 19 year old male and it seems like the only girls that approach me are older females and if I do date a women my age then it seems to never work because we're at two different levels in life.

I recently started dating my older lady (or OL), she is 40, a couple of months ago and I can honestly say she is the first women I was able to open up myself completely too. She's very respectful to me and she is just a true lady. I am completely falling for this female and I've never fallen this easily or fast for any women. she says she has fallen in love with me. she's been married twice and she has five kids (all are in their early teens except for one). But, by the I found this out, I had already started developing feeling for her. Should I be worried about the fact that she has kids close to my age (oldest being 16)?

I really want to pursue this relationship and there is nothing that is going to hold me back, but the negative opinion/views I am getting from my friends and loved ones has me feeling like I'm making a big mistake. Is this what I have to aspect when embarking on a relationship with my OL. I mean some of their comments are down right hurtful. Did anybody experience this when they started dating their older lady? If so, how do you deal with it? I don't want to lose her because I think I have fallen in love with her and I don't want people to accept my choice. Since this is all so new me I just don't know how to handle it and I guess that is where my fear comes in. I'm new to all of this and I just need some kind of advise to get past the negativity so I can focus on what is real.

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Mowhawk · Post by **Mowhawk** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 3:21 am

Only Queen Axlaan can write this piece. Laughing

Steeler [Crawler2] · Post by **Steeler [Crawler2]** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 3:26 am

What is this, the penthouse forum pages?

Mowhawk · Post by **Mowhawk** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 3:40 am

[quote="MAD MAC"]What is this, the penthouse forum pages?[/quote]

Mad Mac

How old is your wife (no pun or malice intended towards her)?

1nemansquad · Post by **1nemansquad** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 4:20 am

dude its absolutely regular for young dudes to be engrossed to older women, i under no circumstances messed with younger females or the same age as me, one way or another it was at all times unmentionable thing to do till in recent times; i usta think if a girl is the same age as me or younger, she's intellectually ineffectual and what caused that was bein too narcissistic which is a segment every or some young dudes or a dudettes go thruu at one time in their life

ma advice to you, just enjoy the ride for now but get of it soon enuff cause there is a big gap between 19 and 40

p.s i didn't read that long ass fairy-tale, which am only guessin it is a fairy-tale

gurey25 · Post by **gurey25** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 7:05 am

all i can say is if this is not a fairy tale, then by all means go for it.
but you know what they say women hit thier sexual prime in thier 30's so this one would be a tigress in bed.

enjoy
Laughing

qudhac-m · Post by **qudhac-m** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 8:07 am

[quote="Mowhawk"]:lol: Laughing

Only Queen Axlaan can write this piece. Laughing

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*HannaH* · Post by ***HannaH*** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 8:09 am

When my younger brother was 19, my mom was 40.
Needless to say, there is no way on earth it will work.....but Im not gonna sit here and give you a serious answer............because you're prolly some bored kid.

So, in short...........Go suck on your pacifier kid.

Post by **Basra-** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 8:14 am

Run..... Boy Lolita.......Run!!! Rolling Eyes

ERITREAN_MOB_BOSS · Post by **ERITREAN_MOB_BOSS** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 8:36 am

OLDER WOMEN ARE INTO CHIVALRY ( MY EXP.) AND U HAVE TO HAVE SOME CHARM CAUSE LETS FACE IT WHAT ARE U GONNA BRING TO THE TABLE THAT HER LAST LOOSER MAN DIDNT? U BETTER NOT BRING UR SOMALI SANDALS OR UR DRY CURLS FOR SURE!

OLDER WOMEN ( OR ALL WOMEN) FOR THE MOST PART LIKE CHARMING, FUNNY, WITTY GUYS...SINCE UR SOMALI TEEN WITH GOOFY TEETH UR BEST LUCK WOULD BE TO DRUG THE OLD BIT.CH

Xyaad · Post by **Xyaad** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 9:00 am

Now that is wrong on all levels are you that desperate that you only go for saggy old women! Laughing

Samatr · Post by **Samatr** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 10:15 am

Just one question, do her titts feel like sand bags?

If they don't go for it!

gurey25 · Post by **gurey25** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 10:15 am

Xyaad its not that outragous,
some men like mature women,

I dated a 32 year old a few years back when i was 21.

Sir-Luggoyo · Post by **Sir-Luggoyo** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 10:23 am

What is this? The Maury show?

The reason you sukk in dating your own age is because you are still Mamma's boy and you needed a motherly figure which you get in the OL, so, don't waste nobody's time just go and sukk those sagged tits until you fall asleep

Samatr · Post by **Samatr** » Thu Nov 10, 2005 10:29 am

[quote="Sir-Luggoyo"]What is this? The Maury show?

The reason you sukk in dating your own age is because you are still Mamma's boy and you needed a motherly figure which you get in the OL, so, don't waste nobody's time just go and sukk those sagged tits until you fall asleep[/quote]

Hey calm down, he never said she had saggy tits.

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First time dating an older female....help!!!

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