Between A Somali Guy Or African American - Who Do I Choose?
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Re: Between A Somali Guy Or African American - Who Do I Cho
[quote="Mubeenah"]I know this sounds crazy, but it's all real,i am dealing with 2 different guys. One guy is Somali and my parents love him to pieces, he's extremely nice, has a great job and loves me more than anything in the World. The other guy who is an African American is very different, every time I'm with him I feel like a real woman, he's funny, strong minded, and knows what he wants from women and usually gets it which scares me at times.
To make a long story short my parents told the Somali guy to ask for my hand in marriage which he did and now I feel terrible because I am pregnant with the Afro American guys child. What should I do? Should I leave the African American and just be with the Somali guy even though I really don't love him as much? I'm scared now because I'm two months pregnant and I think my parents might disown me. I'm not a fan of killing innocent children, so I will have my child even though it will cause a tremendous amount of stress upon my life.
I have been stressed out for the passed 3 weeks. I just don't know what to do. Plz help me with out insulting me, any advise would be greatly appreciated.[/quote]
No one here can help, you need to seek Allah(SWT) repentance and help. You need to consult with your parents about the situation, and after that you need to convince the African American guy to convert to Islam and marry him for sake of the unborn child being born out of weddlock.
To make a long story short my parents told the Somali guy to ask for my hand in marriage which he did and now I feel terrible because I am pregnant with the Afro American guys child. What should I do? Should I leave the African American and just be with the Somali guy even though I really don't love him as much? I'm scared now because I'm two months pregnant and I think my parents might disown me. I'm not a fan of killing innocent children, so I will have my child even though it will cause a tremendous amount of stress upon my life.
I have been stressed out for the passed 3 weeks. I just don't know what to do. Plz help me with out insulting me, any advise would be greatly appreciated.[/quote]
No one here can help, you need to seek Allah(SWT) repentance and help. You need to consult with your parents about the situation, and after that you need to convince the African American guy to convert to Islam and marry him for sake of the unborn child being born out of weddlock.
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if you are not making this up, dont ask advice from weird people on the net, half of them have mental issues. but for whats its worth, i agree with Ceelgabo. you made a mistake, now you have to step up, that includes telling the father, your parents and the guy your engaged to. to make it easier, you should seek professional help and help from friends and family but most importantly from Allah.
for not aborting
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Please, i am begging you, go with the adoon. You are as good as dead, you are probably swimming diseases. Leave the somali brother alone. In your own words you said this adoon treat you like trash and takes what he wants anytime, i guess then it is ok to assume that you are and where a trash to begin with. Here are some info from the adoons in USA, note that this data is not accurate, these numbers should and are higher, since the adoons in ghetto's (remember Katrina) are not counted and other adoons been so lazy don't return their census forms or never go for a check up....but anyways here are something to think about i know it is too late for you and if not i hope it is.
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/aa/resour ... ets/aa.htm
In the United States, the HIV/AIDS epidemic is a health crisis for African Americans. In 2002, HIV/AIDS was among the top 3 causes of death for African American men aged 25–54 years and among the top 4 causes of death for African American women aged 25–54 years. It was the number 1 cause of death for African American women aged 25–34 years [1].
STATISTICS
HIV/AIDS in 2004
According to the 2000 census, African Americans make up 12.3% of the US population. However, African Americans accounted for 19,206 (50%) of the estimated 38,730 new HIV/AIDS diagnoses in the United States in the 35 areas with long-term, confidential name-based HIV reporting [2] (see box before the References section for list of states and areas).
During 2001–2004, the rate of HIV/AIDS diagnoses for African Americans decreased, although the rate for African Americans was still the highest rate for all racial and ethnic groups [3].
The primary mode of HIV transmission among African American men was sexual contact with other men, followed by heterosexual contact and injection drug use [2].
The primary mode of HIV transmission among African American women was heterosexual contact, followed by injection drug use [2].
Of the estimated 145 infants perinatally infected with HIV, 105 (73%) were African American (CDC, HIV/AIDS Reporting System, unpublished data, June 2005).
Of the estimated 18,849 people under the age of 25 whose diagnosis of HIV/AIDS was made during 2001–2004 in the 33 states with HIV reporting, 11,554 (61%) were African American [4].
Of the estimated 80,187 African Americans whose diagnosis of HIV/AIDS was made during 2001–2004 in the 33 states with HIV reporting, 49,704 (62%) were males, and 30,483 (38%) were females [4].
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/aa/resour ... ets/aa.htm
In the United States, the HIV/AIDS epidemic is a health crisis for African Americans. In 2002, HIV/AIDS was among the top 3 causes of death for African American men aged 25–54 years and among the top 4 causes of death for African American women aged 25–54 years. It was the number 1 cause of death for African American women aged 25–34 years [1].
STATISTICS
HIV/AIDS in 2004
According to the 2000 census, African Americans make up 12.3% of the US population. However, African Americans accounted for 19,206 (50%) of the estimated 38,730 new HIV/AIDS diagnoses in the United States in the 35 areas with long-term, confidential name-based HIV reporting [2] (see box before the References section for list of states and areas).
During 2001–2004, the rate of HIV/AIDS diagnoses for African Americans decreased, although the rate for African Americans was still the highest rate for all racial and ethnic groups [3].
The primary mode of HIV transmission among African American men was sexual contact with other men, followed by heterosexual contact and injection drug use [2].
The primary mode of HIV transmission among African American women was heterosexual contact, followed by injection drug use [2].
Of the estimated 145 infants perinatally infected with HIV, 105 (73%) were African American (CDC, HIV/AIDS Reporting System, unpublished data, June 2005).
Of the estimated 18,849 people under the age of 25 whose diagnosis of HIV/AIDS was made during 2001–2004 in the 33 states with HIV reporting, 11,554 (61%) were African American [4].
Of the estimated 80,187 African Americans whose diagnosis of HIV/AIDS was made during 2001–2004 in the 33 states with HIV reporting, 49,704 (62%) were males, and 30,483 (38%) were females [4].
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this aint real. but if in the off chance that is, listen to kambuli and rooble (epecially rooble
) If neither suggestion is palpable, I suggest you get in your car (or the family mini van) park it in the garage, fasten a hose to the exhaust. Run said hose in the window, and start engine, roll the windowes up tite and leave running till you fall asleep. 
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