I tend to not think about what to say and do.
Honesty has it's place and is very important with people you love, but people you don't love need no such consideration if they're being jerks. There are a lot of situations where I could be completely honest with someone who was pissing me off, but I know it will make getting what I wanted from them much harder, and that would just make MY life harder, so i'm like what's the point? most of the time. I just let it slide and keep it shut.
I get mad and I lose it and I come out of that situation the loser even if I was right to get mad.
Now, i'm working on Passive aggresion. Confront smart, not hard and not get mad.
Anyone else like this?
