Postby Cali_Gaab » Fri Mar 07, 2008 9:29 pm
Two questions:
When your wife (for Koronto and AbdiWahab it will be girlfriend or one night stand woman) is due to give birth to your child in hospital are you planning on actually being there with her in person while she delivers?
Imagine those in Somalia who live in huts, the woman gives birth to her child inside the huts and the only people present are the females, family and nurse or so. The husband is usually not present in these circumstances
Therefore the second question is how somaalida go about this issue, do our men make sure they're present during this painfull experience?
I for one can not imagine myself being present during these difficult times, watching her in pain and there's nothing you can do about it. 2 night ago for instance, i found a dead rodent in my house so i grabbed a stick and tapped it just to make sure it was dead.
Even though the stick was a long metal bar, upon touching it i could feel the bar shivering up my hand and dropped it, so i would be pretty useless in the delivery room.
Besides, when women give birth they tend to fart sometimes due to the imense force of pressure they use, dont you think this is embaressing for the wife and she doesn't prefer you to witness this?
Girls can reply aswell, especially to the last comment.