do somali's marry for love or lust anymore?? :(

[suga_n_spice]

u know? im sad to say, but our people don't marry for love anymore! whatever happened to findin someone ur in love with N goin through everything (good N bad) together??

all i hear is........

i want a baby to fill out my taxes
i married him, because i got jealous N some heffa wanted my man
we don't trust each other so maybe after we get married, everything will change for the better
i want a new car, a big wedding, a nice "apartment"

why?

[Phd in naago kudis]

suga_n_spice

what meant to say was, the somalis are following the cadaan mentalitiy

[Advo]

Suga...I am surprised u fell for that love crap.......tell me, du also believe in prince charmin?

[Somaliweyn Commando]

Real love is in Jannah inshallah were its for eternity

[Abdi_westldn]

Im thinking id rather go for love but mostly likely ended having one of convenience. :S

[suga_n_spice]

lool @ Advo. every1 deserves to b happy N to find some1 to love N share a life time with. i believe in prince charmin, but i don't think the somali race has him

SC real love is in jannah, but what about ur time on planet earth?? dont u want some1 to love??

abdi, why do u feel that way??

[WasteMan]

i'm marrying my polish girl this summer and i love her

so yes it can

[suga_n_spice]

waste, then that means if we want to b happy N to love some1 we have to marry some1 whose isn't somali. but why do we have to make a sacrifice?? we're already makin a sacrifice if we marry outside our clan

[FAH1223]

no such thing as love, you people need to get that through your heads (BALOOOOOO)

[suga_n_spice]

loool fah, ur still a baby ;) wait a couple of yrs then tell me if u feel the same way

[AbdiWahab252]

Who marries for love anymore ?

Its all about compatibility, what both bring to the table and the types of families.

Jaceel comes around later on.

[Koronto91]

Love is an essential ingredient in any marriage according to the scriptures of Islam. The Prophet (saw) was recorded many times confessing his love for Khadija (ra), their marriage was based on love & compassion for one another and after her death, scholars write the Prophet (saw) never recovered from such a loss.

[Abdi_westldn]

Suga I am Somali its the most I could hope for.

[suga_n_spice]

i agree jaceel does come around later, for me at least, but how is it possible to marry some1 N trust ur soul with some1 that u dont even really love to begin with. if ur a woman u only have a 1 time chance. N if u gamble with that chance there is no goin back. shaashka hal mar hadaad xiratid bas waaye.

somali families don't make things easier either, most of the time ayagaa reerka isku dira, but why? maxeey ka helayaan guri dumey?

[Abdi_westldn]

Im starting to lose the plot are we talking about marrying for love or lust, ama waa destroying marriages?