Foxy22 wrote:ms.nalia wrote:
Foxy
I dont know what kind of emotionally scarred women you've known in your life. But if a man says I love you to a woman and means it....most likely the feeling is mutual and its a stepping stone to a better relationship.
A person who runs when they hear I love you has emotional insecurities and may think they dont deserve it.
Oh god I hope your not serious cause you are starting to worry me. Inshallah I hope you will never ever meet those bastards that are out there. You are so sweet and innocent.
The feeling is not always so mutual and it is not necessarily always a stepping stone to a better relationship.. it is a stepping stone indeed to your panties!
Dont get it twisted hun, Im no means nieve or innocent. I think you perhaps might be a cynical woman who might have fallen for the wrong man once or twice in the past. I can understand your sentiment, althought I do not share the view.
I know theres bastards out there who throw out the word, women do the same thing.
Im just sayin, in a meaningful realtionship those exchnage of words can mean alot.
Perhaps Im over-compensating when I say I love to family n friends cause I feel guilty that I dont spend as much time with them. I cant imagine not saying it to my family or my friends in that fact....and reciprocity is perfect....atleast for me!
Its def. not a word I throw around for the sake of it....
call me emotional, sad pathetic or whateva..but I never have a problem expressing my feelings to the people i love...I always express my love for others whether they are my family, friends or my husband... 
