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"Women aren't attracted to men"

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"Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby Brav3Heart » Wed Oct 22, 2008 3:36 pm

I found this posting in craigslist

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Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.

Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.

They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.

A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.

A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.

As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.

Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.

It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.


I'm completely unable to reconcile the differences between men and women. It seems like success with women is equal to spending half of your life working to create a giant illusion, something vastly tiring and annoying, while sacrificing your own true self and your own interests. We construct our lives around nest-building. We're like male birds building nests and showing them off to attract mates. It's pathetic. Everything we do is to get women. It is a f-king shit deal.

Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights. I'd be free and happy. I'd feel complete. I'd be able to concentrate on my biochemistry studying.

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Guys and girls what do you think?

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby ms.nalia » Wed Oct 22, 2008 3:39 pm

I think that article is way too long.

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby Afraa* » Wed Oct 22, 2008 3:44 pm

I think that it's written by a guy that hasn't reached the "status" that women are attracted to.

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby zulaika » Wed Oct 22, 2008 3:55 pm

Brav3Heart wrote:
A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.


with the exception of the prostitution part, i don't see anything wrong with that. its a quid pro qou world. a man of great success can have women for free so why then this predicament of "trade" you may wonder. because he knows a women of certain persuasion, class and intelligence requires trade of the highest stock. and that is that. :) :)

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby The-Screw » Wed Oct 22, 2008 3:59 pm

A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.



:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby Anab » Wed Oct 22, 2008 5:23 pm

[quote="Brav3Heart"]
Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights. I'd be free and happy quote]



:roll: .... Yeah, that drug is called, Gay drug. :D



U r missing the point here. :roll: Man and Woman are biologically and genetically programmed to be horny for each other in the interest of procreation, and to fit a mastermind plan for the humankind. A woman needs a stable provider, a protector, that of course translates toa rich man. Not a broke a$$ motherfcker. :D (I beg your pardon. :D )

Men are the ones who are into beauty and youth. Women dont necessary have to get a handsome man, as braveheart stated above. It is correct- he doesnt have to be drop dead gorgeous, he just doesnt have to be drop dead fugli. :D


The reason a man needs a beautiful & youthful thing, is first to impregnent, because-- the beauty part makes him sexually excited, thus sort of puts the procreation equipment up and the youthness usually goes well with mothering. And second, Man needs to be taken care of just like him mother did.There, i have simplified things for u, is it clear now? :D

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby qardasay » Wed Oct 22, 2008 10:15 pm

looks are important, and fame, power, wealth, status and achievements

Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby HAUDflower » Thu Oct 23, 2008 2:56 pm

The truest words ever spoken.

Every man knows this and every woman lives by it.

Even when we're kids, we as men try to hang out with the "cool crowd" not because they're interesting people nor are they kind-hearted people nor are they even reliable, but they have status and everyone else thinks they're interesting.

Sheeple are attracted to status, and most women are sheeple, much more so than any man.

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby Aliyah99 » Thu Oct 23, 2008 3:07 pm

Ok maybe its partially true but how can it be 100% true the human race would have died out long ago, who would breed with the men with lower status :roll:

This is more about men punching above their weight and aiming for women outta their league and then getting upset when she chooses someone in her league :lol:

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby Foxy22 » Fri Oct 24, 2008 4:51 am

never seen so much bull$hit at one go :!:

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby Brav3Heart » Fri Oct 24, 2008 5:21 am

Foxy22 wrote:never seen so much bull$hit at one go :!:


Foxy if this is bs then what do you find attractive about a guy?

If you look past his harsh vocab and bitter tone :lol: I think you ladies can agree with much of what he is saying.

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Re: "Women aren't attracted to men"

Postby Foxy22 » Fri Oct 24, 2008 5:41 am

Brav3Heart wrote:
Foxy22 wrote:never seen so much bull$hit at one go :!:


Foxy if this is bs then what do you find attractive about a guy?

If you look past his harsh vocab and bitter tone :lol: I think you ladies can agree with much of what he is saying.


I saw him from a distance.. I knew nothing about him.. he was a complete stranger but I knew he was mine and he has been my partner ever since


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