Postby Ganjaweed » Wed Jul 28, 2010 9:40 am
Moron, don't talk when you quite obviously know nothing. Dadka qaarkood waan la yaaba, wey hadlayaan uun yagoon wax cilmi ah ama aqoon ah ka hadleyn. Where did I say the prophet advised "beating the wife"? Read what I wrote before attacking me doqonyahow. If you don't understand what the word "mild" means, I can't help you. And I advise you to not use the "f" word in the same paragraph you've mentioned the Prophet SAWS, show some respect. Ma xoolaad tahey? With regards to mild beating it means not leaving a physical mark like a cut, bruise, scratch lacerations and never hitting the women in the face etc. Divorce is also something the prophet SAWS didn't condone, but it was lawful under some circumstances. Obviously you don't beat them brutally all the time, that's called abuse.
Surah An-Nisaa' Verse 34
Sahih International
"Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand."
Tafsir al-Jalalayn
"Men are in charge of, they have authority over, women, disciplining them and keeping them in check, because of that with which God has preferred the one over the other, that is, because God has given them the advantage over women, in knowledge, reason, authority and otherwise, and because of what they expend, on them [the women], of their property. Therefore righteous women, among them, are obedient, to their husbands, guarding in the unseen, that is, [guarding] their private parts and otherwise during their spouses’ absence, because of what God has guarded, for them, when He enjoined their male spouses to look after them well. And those you fear may be rebellious, disobedient to you, when such signs appear, admonish them, make them fear God, and share not beds with them, retire to other beds if they manifest such disobedience, and strike them, but not violently, if they refuse to desist [from their rebellion] after leaving them [in separate beds]. If they then obey you, in what is desired from them, do not seek a way against them, a reason to strike them unjustly. God is ever High, Great, so beware of Him, lest He punish you for treating them unjustly."
