Assalamu Alaikum,
Some of the lessons learnt from Quran that apply to our general living!
1. Do not backbite one another [49/12]
2. When you meet each other, offer good wishes and blessings for safety. One who conveys to you a message of safety and security and also when a courteous greeting is offered to you, meet it with a greeting still more courteous or (at least) of equal courtesy [4/86]
3. When you enter your own home or the home of somebody else, compliment the inmates [24/61]
4. Do not enter houses other than your own until you have sought permission; and then greet the inmates and wish them a life of blessing, purity and pleasure [24/27]
5. Treat kindly
" Your parents
" Relatives
" The orphans
" And those who have been left alone in the society [4/36]
6. Take care of
" The needy,
" The disabled
" Those whose hard earned income is insufficient to meet their needs
" And those whose businesses have stalled
" And those who have lost their jobs. [4/36]
7. Treat kindly
" Your related neighbours, and unrelated neighbours
" Companions by your side in public gatherings, or public transportation. [4/36]
8. Be generous to the needy wayfarer, the homeless son of the street, and the one who reaches you in a destitute condition [4/36]
9. Be nice to people who work under your care. [4/36]
10. Do not follow up what you have given to others to afflict them with reminders of your generosity [2/262].
11. Do not expect a return for your good behaviour, not even thanks [76/9]
12. Cooperate with one another in good deeds and do not cooperate with others in evil and bad matters [5/2]
13. Do no try to impress people on account of self-proclaimed virtues [53/32]
14. You should enjoin right conduct on others but mend your own ways first. Actions speak louder than words. You must first practice good deeds yourself, then preach [2/44]
15. Correct yourself and your families first [before trying to correct others] [66/6]
16. Pardon gracefully if anyone among you who commits a bad deed out of ignorance, and then repents and amends [6/54, 3/134]
17. Divert and sublimate your anger and potentially virulent emotions to creative energy, and become a source of tranquillity and comfort to people [3/134]
18. Call people to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful exhortation. Reason with them most decently [16/125]
19. Leave to themselves those who do not give any importance to the Divine code and have adopted and consider it as mere play and amusement [6/70]
20. Sit not in the company of those who ridicule Divine Law unless they engage in some other conversation [4/140]
21. Do not be jealous of those who are blessed [4/54]
22. In your collective life, make rooms for others [58/11]
23. When invited to dine, Go at the appointed time. Do not arrive too early to wait for the preparation of meal or linger after eating to engage in bootless babble. Such things may cause inconvenience to the host [33/53]
24. Eat and drink [what is lawful] in moderation [7/31].
25. Do not squander your wealth senselessly [17/26]
26. Fulfil your promises and commitments [17/34]
27. Keep yourself clean, pure [9/108, 4/43, 5/6].
28. Dress-up in agreeable attire and adorn yourself with exquisite character from inside out [7/26]
29. Seek your provision only by fair endeavour [29/17, 2/188]
30. Do not devour the wealth and property of others unjustly, nor bribe the officials or the judges to deprive others of their possessions [2/188]
"Verily my happiness is my iman and verily my iman is in my heart and verily my hearts does not belong to anyone but Allah" Asma bint Abu Bakr
Subhan'Allah, May Allah (SWT) make us amongst the righteous believers (those you live their lives according to the Qur'an and Sunnah of the Prophet (saw)
Ameen
Salam
asalam
