So, how did you react? Recently I went to a family wedding, actually the nikaax. After the meher, the guests filed by shaking hands with the groom and hugging the bride. My turn came. I shook the groom's hand and turned to hug the bride. She made it clear she didn't want me hugging her just cuz i didn't want to be her bridesmaid.

So, I turned and hugged the groom.
Now, I'm on the family's sh!t list for snubbing the bride, ruining her wedding day, p!ssing off her family which is my family, blah, blah blah. I skipped the reception to avoid the follow up fight last night. I admit, I could have avoided all the theatrics but, I do what the voices tell me.
So, what would you have done, had you been in my shoes?