its hard out there for good single girls

[OliveOil]

Zuli:
You do kinda have a point there sista!

Its a good thing you locked down your man when you did!

Let's get one thing right, I DONT HAVE 2 MOUNTAINS ON MY CHEST.
kapiiiiiish?

lol what r u talking about? I don't think she was talking to u brotha!

[zingii]

She quoted me sis.

[zingii]

Ahhh, now i see where the mistake is.

Zuli = suleeqa and not zingii

ps, i quoted her and not the other way around.

CAFIS GABARYAHAY.

[OliveOil]

lol ok

[qoraxeey]

Qorexeey, I thought u were a guy

wa iska caadi

everybody though / still thinks . im a guy . lool .. appertenly my username is some sort male name

[Tuba]

with this new breed of xalimos throwing themselves at every guy, the old days of farax pursing girls in respectable manners are over and good girls sitting at home waiting for mr. right to come calling have quite an obstacle to overcome...stay strong ladies its hard out there...but stay strong, stay proud.

conclusion from my recent observations..

Lol been ma sheegin. Shameless Xaliimos.

I'm thinking an arranged marriage is the way to go now.

[zulaika]

I disagree with You Zulekha,

There is a lot of ways good girls find guys. They can find it in the Mosque events like Muctamar or Madrassa, Through a girlfriend's husband friend, Through Qaraabo. There is always a chance for gabar fiican.

u are probably right, but my intent here is to highlight or reminisce rather, the old dayz of faraxs seeking and pursuing..this is almost non existent, now even wadaads are being chased by xalimos slipping them notes at the masjid... so faraxs be they wadaads or sajaqaans just sit tight and choose between xalimos vying for his attention.

its a new reality..a sad one in my view.

[ms.naliaa]

I disagree with You Zulekha,

There is a lot of ways good girls find guys. They can find it in the Mosque events like Muctamar or Madrassa, Through a girlfriend's husband friend, Through Qaraabo. There is always a chance for gabar fiican.

u are probably right, but my intent here is to highlight or reminisce rather, the old dayz of faraxs seeking and pursuing..this is almost non existent, now even wadaads are being chased by xalimos slipping them notes at the masjid... so faraxs be they wadaads or sajaqaans just sit tight and choose between xalimos vying for his attention.

its a new reality..a sad one in my view.

lol you keep saying sad zuli but all I keep seeing is

Could it be that your secertly happy about this???

[OliveOil]

Qorexeey, I thought u were a guy

wa iska caadi

everybody though / still thinks . im a guy . lool .. appertenly my username is some sort male name

Yeah, to me, its a Male nickname...but I could be wrong.

[zulaika]

nai,

not happy about it huuno...

its a funny knida sad, seeing these chicks make a fool of themselves so i simply laugh it off.

[ms.naliaa]

nai,

not happy about it huuno...

its a funny knida sad, seeing these chicks make a fool of themselves so i simply laugh it off.

But you shouldnt be laughing at those girls who are merely tryint to acquire what you have gained.

Plus, who says they're not having fun?

[Addoow]

It is becoming normal and i dont think there is anything wrong with a girl who actively pursues her love life.The old days where women used to sit and the farah to do the hunting is over.Only a confident woman can aggressively pursue a guy.

[zulaika]

It is becoming normal and i dont think there is anything wrong with a girl who actively pursues her love life.The old days where women used to sit and the farah to do the hunting is over.Only a confident woman can aggressively pursue a guy.

there's a BIG difference between letting someone know you're interested and throwing yourself at them....the latter is a growing trend among females that worries me dear.

[Niya]

Lol@ the title! What was the lyrics of the movie song: It hard out there for pimp!

The problem might be with the word "right". Give chance and say yes to Mr. or Ms Okay.

[Addoow]

It is becoming normal and i dont think there is anything wrong with a girl who actively pursues her love life.The old days where women used to sit and the farah to do the hunting is over.Only a confident woman can aggressively pursue a guy.

there's a BIG difference between letting someone know you're interested and throwing yourself at them....the latter is a growing trend among females that worries me dear.

Let it go madam,it is 2010.Lakinse,Do you think this trend benefits males or females? Knowing a certain sis is let you know she is interested is exciting runtii.