Anyway, I've learned a good lesson while I was gone: treat people as u would like to be treated. My initial philisophy was different classes of people deserve different classes of treatment
why da change of heart ? well, philosophically speaking, it was a sudden realization that burst out of the dark waters of my psyche. 
well ACTUALLY I was walking with some friends of mine de other day and I saw this poor woman being torn to bits (figuratively speaking) by her daughter. and I was like, thats not fair. SO for some bizarre reason idiom came to mind, don't ask me why, and I've decided to live by it. Sight, sometimes I can't figure myself out.
