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"I would suffer being hacked to death to spare the Prophet the prick of a thorn while he is in his home."

`Umar ibn Al-Khattab told the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once: "O Allah's Messenger! You are dearer to me than everything except my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "No, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is, (you will not have complete faith) till I am dearer to you than your own self." Then `Umar said to him [having reflected upon the matter], "However, now, by Allah, you are dearer to me than my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Now, O `Umar, (you are a believer)." (Al-Bukhari)


BlackVelvet of course abaayo. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is only second to Allah.`Umar ibn Al-Khattab told the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once: "O Allah's Messenger! You are dearer to me than everything except my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "No, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is, (you will not have complete faith) till I am dearer to you than your own self." Then `Umar said to him [having reflected upon the matter], "However, now, by Allah, you are dearer to me than my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Now, O `Umar, (you are a believer)." (Al-Bukhari)
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Okay since it seems to be a competition. Should the prophet mean more to you than your mother?

It is not 'should he' but rather 'he does' mean more to us than any save Allah.`Umar ibn Al-Khattab told the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once: "O Allah's Messenger! You are dearer to me than everything except my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "No, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is, (you will not have complete faith) till I am dearer to you than your own self." Then `Umar said to him [having reflected upon the matter], "However, now, by Allah, you are dearer to me than my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Now, O `Umar, (you are a believer)." (Al-Bukhari)
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Okay since it seems to be a competition. Should the prophet mean more to you than your mother?




`Umar ibn Al-Khattab told the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once: "O Allah's Messenger! You are dearer to me than everything except my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "No, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is, (you will not have complete faith) till I am dearer to you than your own self." Then `Umar said to him [having reflected upon the matter], "However, now, by Allah, you are dearer to me than my own self." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Now, O `Umar, (you are a believer)." (Al-Bukhari)
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Okay since it seems to be a competition. Should the prophet mean more to you than your mother?
So the answer is "Yes"!Love for the Prophet Muhammad is a measure of one's iman (faith and inner conviction) and our iman is completed and perfected only when our love for the Prophet exceeds our love for everything else in this world, including our own lives. The Holy Qur'an says:
"The Prophet is preferable for the believers even to their own selves..." (33:6)
This is a definitional sentence which tells us what it takes to be a believer: preferring the Prophet even to one's own life. In confirmation of this the Prophet is reported in Hadith to have said:
"None of you becomes a believer until I am dearer to him than his children, his parents and all mankind." (as reported by Bukhari and Muslim) Some versions add: "his life, his wealth and his family"


The more you read and learn about the prophet (saw) the more you will love him. You can not expect to love someone when you do not know them completely.
Learning the seerah of the prophet (saw) will help you to learn to love him and hence increase your imeen inshallah. The prophet (saw)’s manner, character and his love for his ummah will touch you’re heart and in return you will love him. What were his last words “my umma my umma”. Such a noble man!

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