Where do I find my new wife?

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

Lol u live in UK and ask this kind of a retarded question? U must be blind. Open your eyes, there are xalimos in the mosque, supermarket, social meetings, parties.

[haxxor]

Lol u live in UK and ask this kind of a retarded question? U must be blind. Open your eyes, there are xalimos in the mosque, supermarket, social meetings, parties.

They're all in kitchen, I'm not sure which one.

[MizHargeysa]

LOOOOL @ this topic , people give the guy credit atleast his looking to find himself a wife whichever way it maybe , instead of looking for a girlfriend.
Try social events, maybe tell your family you looking for a good sister and they can introduce you to someone. lol@facebook although i have seen people get married from fb.
good luck.

[Twist]

Marriage is outdated!

So you encourage Zina? I hope you burn in Hell.

Morons always rush into extreme.

All I said is "Marriage is outdated"; did you ask me what I meant by that?

Plus, even if I meant the way you took it, would you rather pray for me or curse me?

I hope you'll get what you hoped for me.

[IRONm@N]

Did you try Qoraxeey? she has been looking for a man on Somalinet for the last couple years, I think give her a try, it may be match made in heaven.

and I command you for you bravery, most ppl criticizing you are in the same situation, but they are hypocrites and don't want to admit it.

[HELWAA]

Dude aren't u eighteen?..damn ur too young for a wify.

Yes, somewhere around that age, marrying in young age is good thing as it is has been mentioned many times in Imams/Sheikhs in Mosques. I also believe it is good thing to marry young because there's less likely that she has committed zina, and there's also less chance that she committed something very sinful. Being single at 20-21 makes you feel more desperate and more willing to commit zina because you can't hold your temptation.

[Colonel]

Dude aren't u eighteen?..damn ur too young for a wify.

Yes, somewhere around that age, marrying in young age is good thing as it is has been mentioned many times in Imams/Sheikhs in Mosques. I also believe it is good thing to marry young because there's less likely that she has committed zina, and there's also less chance that she committed something very sinful. Being single at 20-21 makes you feel more desperate and more willing to commit zina because you can't hold your temptation.

Why are you shocked? Zina is rampand in our community and no man with pride wants a non-virgin, i agree with OP marry a girl between 18-21 to reduce chances of getting 1 that's been around every block from London to Kinshasa.

[AgentOfChaos]

Well you are not gonna find her if you are on Somalinet 24/7 that's for sure.

[haxxor]

Morons always rush into extreme.

All I said is "Marriage is outdated"; did you ask me what I meant by that?

Plus, even if I meant the way you took it, would you rather pray for me or curse me?

I hope you'll get what you hoped for me.

There is no other way to having halaal relationship other than marriage. Like yours, my comment was not serious. I guess so, sarcasm does not work across the internet.

Did you try Qoraxeey? she has been looking for a man on Somalinet for the last couple years, I think give her a try, it may be march made in heaven.

and I command you for you bravery, most ppl criticizing you are in the same situation, but they are hypocrites and don't want to admit it.

I would not choose to marry someone across the internet, even if she is lives close to me which Qoraxeey does not. Also, she is desperate, much more desperate than me. She is not in same category as mine. I agree with you, most SNET members would be embarrassed to admit it.

Why are you shocked? Zina is rampand in our community and no man with pride wants a non-virgin, i agree with OP marry a girl between 18-21 to reduce chances of getting 1 that's been around every block from London to Kinshasa.

Yes, and it is well known that in past, people tend to marry in their teens, anywhere 10-15, and it was society which made it difficult to marry early.

Well you are not gonna find her if you are on Somalinet 24/7 that's for sure.

Well? It's holiday and I shall begin searching after Eid, and this is Ramadan, so not good time to date as most of ladies are in home, in kitchen cooking iftar.

[HELWAA]

Why are you shocked? Zina is rampand in our community and no man with pride wants a non-virgin, i agree with OP marry a girl between 18-21 to reduce chances of getting 1 that's been around every block from London to Kinshasa.

I'm not shocked at the zinah part, i know it's become like drinking coffe.Laakin what i got confused over is, that he actaully think all pple over 18 do zinah.
Zinah is not age limited, even 16yrs somali girls are doing it nowdays.And there are pple who are over 40 who never been married who are still virgin.It has nothing to do with age, if you dont fear Allah swt you will do whatever you like.
Allah swt already said every zaani will end up with zaania.Simply, if you're not virgin urself dont expect a virgin one.

If you're God fearing person haxxor put ur trust in Allah swt and dont rush into somthing you're not ready for.Yes you may have needs but marriage is not all about sex, remember that.It's a huge responsibilty and we have to many divorces in our community so think twice before you take that step.

[934]

I sometimes ask myself...How does Helwaa reconcile her cool headed, God fearing ways with the sewer that is Snet?

[HELWAA]

^^Tooshka iga qaad huuno.

[934]

ok

Raali noqo.

[haxxor]

Why are you shocked? Zina is rampand in our community and no man with pride wants a non-virgin, i agree with OP marry a girl between 18-21 to reduce chances of getting 1 that's been around every block from London to Kinshasa.

I'm not shocked at the zinah part, i know it's become like drinking coffe.Laakin what i got confused over is, that he actaully think all pple over 18 do zinah.
Zinah is not age limited, even 16yrs somali girls are doing it nowdays.And there are pple who are over 40 who never been married who are still virgin.It has nothing to do with age, if you dont fear Allah swt you will do whatever you like.
Allah swt already said every zaani will end up with zaania.Simply, if you're not virgin urself dont expect a virgin one.

If you're God fearing person haxxor put ur trust in Allah swt and dont rush into somthing you're not ready for.Yes you may have needs but marriage is not all about sex, remember that.It's a huge responsibilty and we have to many divorces in our community so think twice before you take that step.

I know there are some virgin people over 30 or even 40, but the point still stands. The older you are, more you desperate you will be, therefore more likely you will have committed zina sin. 16 years Somali girls/boys doing "it" is quite unlikely, and last time I checked, this is increasing but it's still quite low, so low that every school/college that has ethnicity of Somali at 10-20%, you're going to at least see about 1, 2 or even 5 having committed zina sin, out of 100-300 Somali people. As you go to Uni, this number will go up to 20-30, or even 50 assuming the number of Somalis is the same.

Also, you don't have to have responsibility if you don't have babies. Also, you don't have to live together too.

EDIT: The same applies to boys too, no girl gonna want de-virginised boy.

[HELWAA]

Why are you shocked? Zina is rampand in our community and no man with pride wants a non-virgin, i agree with OP marry a girl between 18-21 to reduce chances of getting 1 that's been around every block from London to Kinshasa.

I'm not shocked at the zinah part, i know it's become like drinking coffe.Laakin what i got confused over is, that he actaully think all pple over 18 do zinah.
Zinah is not age limited, even 16yrs somali girls are doing it nowdays.And there are pple who are over 40 who never been married who are still virgin.It has nothing to do with age, if you dont fear Allah swt you will do whatever you like.
Allah swt already said every zaani will end up with zaania.Simply, if you're not virgin urself dont expect a virgin one.

If you're God fearing person haxxor put ur trust in Allah swt and dont rush into somthing you're not ready for.Yes you may have needs but marriage is not all about sex, remember that.It's a huge responsibilty and we have to many divorces in our community so think twice before you take that step.

I know there are some virgin people over 30 or even 40, but the point still stands. The older you are, more you desperate you will be, therefore more likely you will have committed zina sin. 16 years Somali girls/boys doing "it" is quite unlikely, and last time I checked, this is increasing but it's still quite low, so low that every school/college that has ethnicity of Somali at 10-20%, you're going to at least see about 1, 2 or even 5 having committed zina sin, out of 100-300 Somali people. As you go to Uni, this number will go up to 20-30, or even 50 assuming the number of Somalis is the same.

Also, you don't have to have responsibility if you don't have babies. Also, you don't have to live together too.

EDIT: The same applies to boys too, no girl gonna want de-virginised boy.

Interesting, so u just want do meher and barrow her from her parents whenever you need her then when you're done take her back like a rented car.Hmm good luck with ur mission.If i were u i would try my luck on ajnabis.