Technically speaking you should be thankful to the guy. If it wasn't for him, the lady wouldn't have had a first marriage, she wouldn't have been a single mum, you probably would never have crossed paths or she wouldn't have been the woman she is today and you two wouldn't have the life you do today with those beautiful kids. - treat him like he was fated to happen
If this logic doesn't work, he dropped his dyme and you won the lottery - treat him like the guy who unwittingly gave you the winning lottery ticket




